A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
你自己
Yourself
When someone's acting for a scene, they can fool the camera. But in everyday life, unless you're watching and censoring yourself every minute, or spending all your time in the company of ladies, what you feel is bound to show in your eyes.
当有人在表演一个场景时，他们可以骗过镜头。但在日常生活中，除非你每时每刻都在审视自己，或者把所有的时间都花在女士们的陪伴下，否则你的感觉一定会从你的眼睛里流露出来。
I think when you begin to think of yourself as having achieved something, then there's nothing left for you to work towards. I want to believe that there is a mountain so high that I will spend my entire life striving to reach the top of it.
我认为，当你开始认为自己已经取得了一些成就，那么你就没有什么可以为之努力的了。我想要相信，有一座山是如此之高，我将用我的一生努力达到它的顶端。
I pattern my actions and life after what I want. No two people are alike. You might admire attributes in others, but use these only as a guide in improving yourself in your own unique way. I don't go for carbon copies. Individualism is sacred!
我按照我想要的方式来规划我的行为和生活。没有两个人是一样的。你可能很欣赏别人的优点，但这只是你用自己独特的方式提升自己的一个指南。我不喜欢复印本。个人主义是神圣的!
It's hard if you start believing that you should be really that perfect fantasy ideal, that people start believing because of all of the retouching. You can delve into that fantasy world and play with it, but when you walk away, that's not you.
如果你开始相信你应该是那种完美的幻想理想，人们开始相信因为所有的修饰。你可以钻研那个幻想的世界，玩它，但当你离开的时候，那不是你。
If your mother did not know how to love herself, or your father did not know how to love himself, then it would be impossible for them to teach you to love yourself. They were doing the best they could with what they had been taught as children.
如果你的母亲不知道如何爱自己，或者你的父亲不知道如何爱自己，那么他们就不可能教你爱自己。他们尽了最大的努力学习他们小时候所学的知识。
Thrift shopping is really just an extension of me being that same kid and going into a place that's completely unconventional that has really endless possibilities in terms of outfits that you can put together and really just expressing yourself.
节俭购物实际上是我还是那个孩子的一种延伸，我去了一个完全非传统的地方，那里有无穷无尽的可能性，你可以把衣服放在一起，真正地表达你自己。
You have come to a stage where you almost have to work on yourself. You know, on finding some tranquility with which to respond to these things, because I realize that the biggest risk that many of us run is beginning to get inured to the horrors.
你已经到了一个几乎要自己努力的阶段。因为我意识到，我们许多人面临的最大风险是开始对恐怖习以为常。
I care about me now. When I didn't care about me, I was, like, 'Why is this going wrong? Why is my life so bad?' But when you don't care about yourself, nobody else is going to care about you. So I learned to love myself, even if nobody else does.
我现在在乎我自己。当我不在乎自己的时候，我就会想，‘为什么会这样?为什么我的生活如此糟糕?但当你不在乎自己的时候，就没有人会在乎你了。所以我学会了爱自己，即使没有人爱我。
The only way you can have it all is by delegating all the running of the home to other people - which I don't ever want to do... So you do it yourself, and it takes time and energy and effort. And if you give it the time, it's profoundly enjoyable.
你能拥有这一切的唯一方法就是把家里所有的事务都委托给别人——我从来不想这么做……所以你自己做，这需要时间、精力和努力。如果你给它时间，它是非常愉快的。
Better that you should take the chance of trying something that is close to your heart, you think is what you want to write, and if they do not publish it, put it in your drawer. But maybe another day will come and you will find a place to put that.
你最好抓住机会尝试一些你内心深处的东西，你认为那是你想写的，如果他们不出版，就把它放在你的抽屉里。但也许有一天你会找到一个地方来放它。
In the future, instead of striving to be right at a high cost, it will be more appropriate to be flexible and plural at a lower cost. If you cannot accurately predict the future then you must flexibly be prepared to deal with various possible futures.
在未来，与其以高成本追求正确，不如以更低的成本实现灵活多样。如果你不能准确地预测未来，那么你必须灵活地准备应对各种可能的未来。
You are capable of more than you know. Choose a goal that seems right for you and strive to be the best, however hard the path. Aim high. Behave honorably. Prepare to be alone at times, and to endure failure. Persist! The world needs all you can give.
你能做的比你知道的更多。选择一个似乎适合你的目标，努力成为最好的，无论道路多么艰难。高目标。行为端正。准备好有时独自一人，忍受失败。坚持!这个世界需要你所能给予的一切。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
To find yourself, think for yourself.
要找到自己，请自己思考。
Remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect.
提醒自己，不完美也没关系。
There's no one to stop you but yourself.
除了你自己，没有人能阻止你。
As a young man... you don't know anything about yourself. And add on to that, you're on the cover of magazines. People are interviewing you about what you think. You feel like a real phony.
作为一个年轻人……你对自己一无所知。而且，你还上了杂志的封面。人们会就你的想法采访你。你觉得自己像个骗子。
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
宽恕是你给自己的礼物。
Actually, I think it's quite sensible not to take yourself too seriously.
事实上，我认为不把自己太当回事是很明智的。