A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
约会
Dating
I'm quite sensitive to women. I saw how my sister got treated by boyfriends. I read this thing that said when you are in a relationship with a woman, imagine how you would feel if you were her father. That's been my approach, for the most part.
我对女人很敏感。我看到我妹妹是如何被男朋友对待的。我读过这样一段话，当你和一个女人在一起的时候，想象一下如果你是她的父亲，你会有什么感觉。在很大程度上，这就是我的方法。
I fantasize about going back to high school with the knowledge I have now. I would shine. I would have a good time, I would have a girlfriend. I think that's where a lot of my pain comes from. I think I never had any teenage years to go back to.
我幻想着用我现在拥有的知识回到高中。我会发光。我会玩得很开心，我会有女朋友。我想这就是我很多痛苦的来源。我想我再也不会回到少年时代了。
I like the bad-boy types. Generally the guy I'm attracted to is the guy in the club with all the tattoos and nail polish. He's usually the lead singer in a punk band and plays guitar. But my serious boyfriends are relatively clean-cut, nice guys. So it's strange.
我喜欢坏男孩类型。一般来说，吸引我的是俱乐部里那个满身纹身、涂着指甲油的家伙。他通常是朋克乐队的主唱，还弹吉他。但我认真的男朋友都是相对干净的好人。这是奇怪的。
If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
如果你在第一次约会时接吻，但这是不对的，那么就不会有第二次约会了。有时候长时间不接吻会更好。我坚信接吻应该是非常亲密的，当你接吻的那一刻，其他一切的闸门都打开了。
I don't really talk about my personal life. It's a strange and funny and weird thing. Sometimes you have a conversation with someone and the paparazzi snaps a picture of you and people decide you're dating. If I try to answer everything people say, I would be up all night.
我不怎么谈论我的私生活。这是一件奇怪、有趣和奇怪的事情。有时候你和某人聊天，狗仔队拍下了你的照片，然后人们决定你在约会。如果我试着回答人们说的每件事，我会整晚不睡。
In my own relationships, I know that I should break up with someone who doesn't encourage me to be strong and make my own choices and do what's best in my life, so if you're dating someone who doesn't want you to be the best person you can be, you shouldn't be dating them.
在我自己的人际关系,我知道我应该分手不鼓励我坚强的人,让我自己选择,做最好的在我的生活中,如果你约会的人不希望你是最好的人,你不应该和他们约会。
The rich are different. Their wants are very high maintenance. They'll pick eye color and hair color, all the way down to what she does for a living, what school she went to. Their list can be extremely long. But at the end of the day, dating is dating, because they're human beings.
富人则不同。他们的需要很难维持。他们会挑选眼睛的颜色和头发的颜色，一直到她以什么为生，她上过什么学校。他们的清单可能非常长。但说到底，约会就是约会，因为他们都是人。
Coming through the fire and through the storm of life with a strong man, my fiance Ashanti, whom I've been dating for eight months and two wonderful children beside me, I'm just so happy that I have been able to maintain my integrity and get to where I am today with the right energy around me.
通过火灾和风暴的生活与一个强壮的男人,我的未婚夫阿,我已经约会了八个月和两个可爱的孩子在我旁边,我太高兴,我已经能够保持完整,让今天的我有了正确的能源。
What I remember most about junior homecoming was my date getting sick afterwards. That kinda sucked. Then, senior year, someone got gum in her hair when we were dancing. She had to get one of the chaperones to take her to the office and cut up her hair. I felt really bad for her, but it worked out fine.
关于初中返校节，我印象最深的是我的约会对象后来生病了。这有点吸。然后，大四那年，我们跳舞的时候，有人把口香糖粘在了她的头发上。她得找个伴儿带她去办公室剪头发。我真的为她感到难过，但结果很好。
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沿着这个主题，再读几句。
It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important.
在人际关系和所有任务中，我们似乎必须只专注于最重要的事情。
Right now I'm pretty single... My career is my boyfriend.
现在我很单身…我的事业是我的男朋友。
I change my mind so much I need two boyfriends and a girlfriend.
我改变主意了，我需要两个男朋友和一个女朋友。
Everything I buy is vintage and smells funny. Maybe that's why I don't have a boyfriend.
我买的所有东西都是陈年旧货，闻起来怪怪的。也许这就是我没有男朋友的原因。
I suppose I was a little bit of what would be called today a nerd. I didn't have girlfriends, and really I wasn't a very social boy.
我想我有点像今天所谓的书呆子。我没有女朋友，而且我真的不是一个很合群的男孩。
You are not alone with a guy until you are a proper age. You don't go to certain levels with men until you are married or you have a certain relationship.
直到你到了适当的年龄，你才会和一个男人独处。直到你结婚或有了一定的关系，你才会和男人达到一定的层次。