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Acceptance
Acceptance is not submission; it is acknowledgement of the facts of a situation. Then deciding what you're going to do about it.
接受不是屈服;它是对形势事实的承认。然后决定你要怎么做。
The acceptance of death gives you more of a stake in life, in living life happily, as it should be lived. Living for the moment.
接受死亡会让你在生活中有更大的风险,让你过上幸福的生活,就像它应该过的那样。活在当下。
Ask not that events should happen as you will, but let your will be that events should happen as they do, and you shall have peace.
不要要求事情按照你的意愿发生,而是让你的意愿让事情按照它们的方式发生,你就会有和平。
The greatest and most important problems in life are all in a certain sense insoluble. They can never be solved, but only outgrown.
生活中最大最重要的问题在某种意义上都是无法解决的。它们永远无法解决,只能超越。
If you have arthritis, calmly say, I was always complaining about the ruts in the road until I realized that the ruts are the road.
如果你有关节炎,平静地说,我一直在抱怨路上的车辙,直到我意识到车辙就是路。
Whatever you accept completely will take you to peace, including the acceptance that you cannot accept, that you are in resistance.
无论你完全接受什么,都会让你平静下来,包括接受你无法接受的事实,接受你正在抵抗的事实。
The real world is not easy to live in. It is rough; it is slippery. Without the most clear-eyed adjustments we fall and get crushed.
现实世界不容易生活。它是粗糙的;它很滑。没有最清晰的调整,我们就会跌倒,被压垮。
Is life so wretched? Isn't it rather your hands which are too small, your vision which is muddled? You are the one who must grow up.
生活是如此悲惨吗?难道不是你的手太小,你的视力混乱吗?你是那个必须长大的人。
Acceptance doesn't mean resignation; it means understanding that something is what it is and that there's got to be a way through it.
接受并不意味着辞职;它的意思是理解事物的本来面目,并且必须有解决的办法。
This sounds crazy, but my goal is to be nominated for an Oscar. I was the kid who was practicing my acceptance speech when I was ten.
这听起来很疯狂,但我的目标是获得奥斯卡提名。我十岁的时候就开始练习我的获奖感言了。
The art of acceptance is the art of making someone who has just done you a small favor wish that he might have done you a greater one.
接受的艺术是让刚刚帮了你一个小忙的人希望他可能已经帮了你一个更大的忙。
I accept life unconditionally. ... Most people ask for happiness on condition. Happiness can only be felt if you don't set any condition.
我无条件地接受生活。大多数人要求幸福是有条件的。幸福只有在你不设定任何条件的情况下才能感受到。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
Acceptance of one's life has nothing to do with resignation; it does not mean running away from the struggle. On the contrary, it means accepting it as it comes, with all the handicaps of heredity, of suffering, of psychological complexes and injustices.
接受一个人的生活与顺从无关;这并不意味着逃避斗争。相反,它意味着接受它的本来面目,带有遗传、痛苦、心理复杂和不公正的所有障碍。
The beauty of the soul shines out when a man bears with composure one heavy mischance after another, not because he does not feel them, but because he is a man of high and heroic temper.
当一个人从容地承受一个又一个重大的不幸时,他的灵魂之美就会闪耀出来,这并不是因为他没有感觉到这些不幸,而是因为他是一个具有高尚和英雄气质的人。
Arrange whatever pieces come your way.
把你要的东西整理好。
I not only bow to the inevitable, I am fortified by it.
我不仅向不可避免的事情低头,而且还因此而坚强。
Love only what befalls you and is spun for you by fate.
爱只是降临在你身上的,是命运为你编织的。
Happy he who learns to bear what he cannot change!
学会忍受自己无法改变之事的人是幸福的!