A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
愤怒
Anger
Anger is only our friend when we know its caliber and how to aim it.
只有当我们知道愤怒的威力以及如何瞄准它时,它才是我们的朋友。
Talk’st thou to me of ‘ifs’? Thou art a traitor.- Off with his head.
你对我说过“如果”吗?你是个叛徒。-砍掉他的头。
you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.
你可以通过什么让一个人生气来衡量他/她的大小。
To go behind a man's hall-door is mean, cowardly, unfair opposition.
躲在一个男人的大厅门后面是卑鄙、懦弱、不公平的反对。
Indignation is a submission of our thoughts, but not of our desires.
愤怒是我们思想的屈服,而不是欲望的屈服。
I'm offended by things and take pathetic little stands against them.
我对事情很生气,对它们采取可怜的小立场。
They look at me and I kind of back up in case they go for my throat.
他们看着我,我有点后退以防他们攻击我的喉咙。
You can let your anger destroy you, or you can use it for something.
你可以让愤怒毁了你,也可以用它来做点什么。
Aggression only moves in one direction - it creates more aggression.
侵略只会向一个方向发展——它会制造更多的侵略。
I don't lose my temper often; about once every twenty years perhaps.
我不常发脾气;大概每二十年一次。
Jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire.
嫉妒如阴间残忍。其馀的都是火炭。
I've purged myself of bitterness and anger and remained open to love.
我已经净化了自己的痛苦和愤怒,并对爱保持开放的心态。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
Compassionate listening is to help the other side suffer less. If we realize that other people are the same people as we are, we are no longer angry at them.
富有同情心的倾听是帮助对方减少痛苦。如果我们意识到其他人和我们是一样的人,我们就不再对他们生气了。
Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything - anger, anxiety, or possessions - we cannot be free.
放手给我们自由,自由是幸福的唯一条件。如果我们的内心仍然执着于任何东西——愤怒、焦虑或财产——我们就无法获得自由。
The worst disease in the world is hate. And the cure for hate is love.
世界上最可怕的疾病是仇恨。爱是治愈仇恨的良药。
If you are patient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.
如果你能在愤怒的时刻保持耐心,你就能逃避一百天的悲伤。
Self-determination is fine but needs to be tempered with self-control.
自我决定是好的,但是需要自我控制。
It is wise to direct your anger towards problems - not people; to focus your energies on answers - not excuses.
明智的做法是把愤怒指向问题,而不是人;把你的精力集中在答案上,而不是借口。