A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
决定
Decisions
I did what I felt that I wanted to do. Fairly selfishly. I didn't know my kids as well as I should have.
我做了我想做的事。相当自私。我不太了解我的孩子，我本应该了解的。
There are some problems remaining but what we have to be wary of is creating further problems ourselves.
仍然存在一些问题，但我们必须警惕的是，我们自己会制造更多的问题。
Too often, people get stuck in a state of over thinking, the result is that they never reach a decision.
很多时候，人们陷入一种过度思考的状态，结果是他们永远无法做出决定。
When our actions and choices are based on fear and denial ... Well, nothing good can come of that. Ever.
当我们的行为和选择基于恐惧和拒绝时……好吧，没有什么好结果。永远。
It's very clearly stated in the film: You make your own choices, and what you're always fighting is ego.
电影中有很清楚的说明:你做出了自己的选择，而你总是在与自我作斗争。
All those who love know exactly the limit they're prepared to go to. They know exactly what is required.
所有爱的人都清楚自己的极限。他们清楚地知道需要什么。
Give your decisions, never your reasons; your decisions may be right, your reasons are sure to be wrong.
给出你的决定，而不是理由;你的决定可能是对的，你的理由肯定是错的。
I believe, however, that impending events will call us and we must respond but where, with whom, and how?
然而，我相信，即将发生的事件将召唤我们，我们必须作出反应，但在哪里、与谁以及如何作出反应?
I don't make decisions with my head anymore. If I don't get the go ahead with my gut, I usually back out.
我不再用脑子做决定了。如果我不能凭直觉去做，我通常会退出。
As soon as questions of will or decision or reason or choice of action arise, human science is at a loss.
一旦出现意志、决定、理由或行动选择的问题，人类科学就会不知所措。
To come up with the ending to a story and then work backwards is like tying your shoe with one hand only.
想好一个故事的结局，然后倒着写，就像只用一只手绑鞋带。
Habits in writing as in life are only useful if they are broken as soon as they cease to be advantageous.
写作的习惯和生活中的习惯一样，只有在它们不再有利时被打破，才会有用。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it.
如果你不喜欢某样东西，改变它;如果你不能改变它，那就改变你思考它的方式。
Because growing up means making tough choices, and doing the right thing doesn’t necessarily mean doing the thing that feels good.
因为成长意味着做出艰难的选择，做正确的事情并不一定意味着做感觉良好的事情。
The first step is clearly defining what it is you're after, because without knowing that, you'll never get it.
第一步是明确你想要的是什么，因为如果你不知道，你永远都不会得到它。
One may miss the mark by aiming too high as too low.
目标过高或过低都有可能偏离目标。
The only way to know how much is enough, is to do too much, and then back up.
知道多少才算足够的唯一方法，就是做得太多，然后再退一步。