A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
分手
Break Up
Sometimes, two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together.
有时候,两个人必须分开,才能意识到他们有多需要重新在一起。
She got the magazine on a Wednesday morning, and on Thursday announced our marriage was over.
她是在周三早上拿到这本杂志的,周四她宣布我们的婚姻结束了。
Falling out of love is like losing weight. It's a lot easier putting it on than taking it off.
失恋就像减肥。穿上比脱下来容易多了。
(On seeing a former lover for the first time in years) I thought I told you to wait in the car.
(多年来第一次见到以前的爱人)我想我告诉过你在车里等着。
It's like half of me really wants to be with him and the other half just wants to be over him.
就好像我有一半真的想和他在一起,另一半只是想和他分手。
Something like a divorce does change you, but children change you more, and now I've had three.
离婚确实会改变你,但孩子对你的影响更大,现在我已经有三个孩子了。
At a certain point in my personal life, I went through a divorce and lost some people close to me.
在我个人生活的某个时刻,我经历了离婚,失去了一些亲近的人。
I discovered my wife in bed with another man, and I was crushed. So I said, 'Get off me, you two!'
我发现我的妻子和另一个男人在床上,我崩溃了。所以我说,‘放开我,你们两个!’
I broke down when we broke up, but I didn’t break in to her house just to break out of my routine.
我们分手的时候我崩溃了,但我不是为了打破常规才闯进她家的。
I don't talk about who I'm dating because when you break up, you wind up reliving it in the media.
我不说我在和谁约会,因为当你们分手的时候,你们会在媒体上重温这段感情。
Now that we are cool, he said, and regret that we hurt each other, I am not sorry that it happened.
“现在我们都冷静下来了,”他说,后悔伤害了彼此,“我不后悔发生了这样的事。
Guys don't adapt as well as women do to getting their heart broken for the first time. It's tragic.
男人不像女人那样适应第一次心碎。这是个悲剧。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
The worst thing a girl can do is trail after a boy when a love affair is dead.
一个女孩能做的最糟糕的事就是在一段恋情结束后跟踪一个男孩。
It's disconcerting to realize how little you have to say to someone who once occupied such a prominent place in your bed.
当你意识到你对一个曾经在你床上占据如此重要位置的人说的话是多么少时,你会感到不安。
I wish we'd never got divorced. He and I both wish we'd never got divorced, but we did. I wish I could go back and be the bride again, but I can't.
我希望我们从未离婚。他和我都希望我们永远不要离婚,但我们离婚了。我希望我能回去再做新娘,但是我不能。
One way to break up any kind of tension is good deep breathing.
打破紧张的一个方法就是深呼吸。
If a relationship is over, just remember it was bound to happen, keep movin! There's no perfect endings!
如果一段关系结束了,记住这是注定要发生的,继续前进!没有完美的结局!
I've spent the last year and a half going through a very public separation, hiding in hotel lobbies.
在过去的一年半里,我躲在酒店大堂里,经历了一次非常公开的分居。