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The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same.

  • -- Carlos Castaneda 卡洛斯·卡斯塔尼达

诀窍在于强调什么。我们要么让自己痛苦，要么让自己快乐。工作量是一样的。

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When I was an academic, I'd sometimes get a little feeling of excitement when I had an idea that was, I hoped, fresh. And whether anyone should act on that idea is a very different question.

当我还是个学者的时候，当我有了一个我希望是新鲜的想法时，我有时会感到有点兴奋。而是否有人应该按照这个想法行事，则是一个完全不同的问题。

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If you actively do something, it will stop making you feel like a victim and you'll start feeling like part of the solution, which is just a huge benefit to your body and your psyche.

如果你积极地做某件事，它会让你不再觉得自己是一个受害者，你会开始觉得自己是解决方案的一部分，这对你的身体和心理都是一个巨大的好处。

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Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves.

当你的朋友要求你对他们诚实时，不要相信他们。他们真正想要的是保持对自己的好感。

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When you connect to the silence within you, that is when you can make sense of the disturbance going on around you.

当你连接到你内心的寂静，那就是你能理解周围发生的干扰的时候。

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The touchstone of moral growth is a progressive displacement of reaction by action.

道德成长的试金石是用行动逐步取代反应。

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A day unemployed is like a bagel- even when it's bad, it's still pretty good...

一天的失业就像一个百吉饼，即使它很糟糕，它仍然很好…

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Illusions of grandeur are not the same as visions of greatness.

伟大的幻想并不等同于伟大的幻想。

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Age is a very high price to pay for maturity.

年龄是为成熟付出的高昂代价。

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