I know in my own marriage I stayed in it to provide my son with what I thought was a stable background and to give him what I thought was the family life a child should have with two parents. But that isn't always the best way, and it took me taking my son to therapy after the divorce to really see it.

我知道在我自己的婚姻中，我留下来是为了给我的儿子提供一个我认为是稳定的背景，给他一个我认为是一个孩子应该拥有的家庭生活。但这并不总是最好的方式，离婚后我带儿子去看了心理治疗，才真正体会到这一点。