Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire.

  • -- Dale Carnegie 戴尔·卡内基

与其担心别人对你的评价,为什么不花时间去做一些他们欣赏的事情呢?

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I think one reason we admire cats, those of us who do, is their proficiency in one-upmanship. They always seem to come out on top, no matter what they are doing - or pretend they do. Rarely do you see a cat discomfited. They have no conscience, and they never regret. Maybe we secretly envy them.

我认为我们崇拜猫的一个原因是,我们这些喜欢猫的人,他们擅长胜过别人。无论他们在做什么,或者假装他们在做什么,他们似乎总能获得成功。你很少看到一只猫狼狈不堪。他们没有良心,从不后悔。也许我们暗地里嫉妒他们。

To be in a position, at my age, where I am financially independent, I can help develop things, I can promote stuff that I believe in, I can say no a lot and spend time writing - that is a gift.

在我这个年龄,在经济上独立的情况下,我可以帮助开发东西,推广我相信的东西,我可以说很多不,花时间写作——这是一种天赋。

You know, I'm trying to sometimes sit down and write some stories about my childhood and maybe one when I'm an old lady put them out like a book.

你知道,我有时想坐下来写一些关于我童年的故事,也许当我老了的时候,把它们像一本书一样拿出来。

Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is sign on as its accomplice.

爱是终极的违法者。它就是不遵守任何规则。我们大多数人所能做的就是作为它的共犯签署协议。

Could you say 'senator' instead of 'ma'am? It's just a thing. I worked so hard to get that title. I'd appreciate it.

你能把“女士”说成“参议员”吗?这只是一件事。我很努力才得到那个头衔。我会很感激的。

If he's trying to allege that I'm a hardhearted person and I don't care about children, he's absolutely wrong.

如果他试图声称我是一个铁石心肠的人,我不关心孩子,那他就大错特错了。

There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

曾经有一段时间,在花蕾中保持紧绷的风险比开花的风险更令人痛苦。

I can't really do the running on hard ground that I used to do. Instead I go swimming as often as possible.

我不能像以前那样在硬地上跑步了。相反,我尽可能经常去游泳。

Admiration is a very short-lived passion, that immediately decays upon growing familiar with its object.

欣赏是一种短暂的感情,但随着你对它对象的熟悉程度的加深,这种感情也会随之消逝。

Actually, it seems like every time I'm about to pack it in, that's when I get a job.

事实上,好像每次我要结束工作的时候,我就能找到一份工作。

I admire bull riders for their passion and the uniqueness each one of them has.

我钦佩骑牛人的激情和他们每个人的独特性。

It's our money, and we're free to spend it any way we please.

这是我们的钱,我们想怎么花就怎么花。

To change, that is the most difficult thing to accomplish.

改变,是最难完成的事情。

The secret of happiness is to admire without desiring.

幸福的秘密在于欣赏而不渴求。