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This part of being a man, changing the way we parent, happens only when we want it to. It changes because we are determined for it to change; and the motive for changing often comes out of wanting to be the kind of parent we didn't have.

作为一个男人，改变我们为人父母的方式，只有在我们想要的时候才会发生。它的改变是因为我们决心让它改变;而改变的动机往往来自想成为我们没有的那种父母。

— Augustus Y. Napier 奥古斯都·Y·纳皮尔