To listen is to continually give up all expectation and to give our attention, completely and freshly, to what is before us, not really knowing what we will hear or what that will mean. In the practice of our days, to listen is to lean in, softly, with a willingness to be changed by what we hear.

  • -- Mark Nepo 马克·尼波

倾听就是不断地放弃所有的期待,把我们的注意力完全地、新鲜地放在我们面前的事物上,而不是真正地知道我们将听到什么或那将意味着什么。在我们的日常生活中,倾听就是轻轻地向前倾,愿意被我们所听到的改变。

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I am comforted by life's stability, by earth's unchangeableness. What has seemed new and frightening assumes its place in the unfolding of knowledge. It is good to know our universe. What is new is only new to us.

生命的稳定,地球的不变使我感到安慰。在知识的发展过程中,似乎是新鲜而可怕的东西占据了一席之地。了解我们的宇宙是件好事。新事物对我们来说只是新事物。

My mom has a good way of engaging me in a conversation about the choices I make, listening, being objective and open-minded, and respecting those choices so long as they don't put me in danger.

我妈妈有一个很好的方法让我参与到关于我所做的选择的对话中,倾听,保持客观和开放的心态,尊重这些选择,只要它们不会让我处于危险之中。

Die when I may, I want it said of me by those who knew me best, that I always plucked a thistle and planted a flower where I thought a flower would grow.

当我可以死去的时候,我希望那些最了解我的人对我说,我总是摘下蓟,在我认为会开花的地方种上一朵花。

I am very sure that any man of common understanding may, by culture, care, attention, and labor, make himself what- ever he pleases, except a great poet.

我相信任何一个有共同理解的人,通过文化、关心、注意和劳动,都能使自己成为除伟大诗人之外他所喜欢的任何人。

Ladies and gentlemen please would you bring your attention to me? For a feast for your eyes to see an explosion of catastrophe.

女士们先生们请注意我好吗?为一场盛宴,让你亲眼目睹一场灾难的爆发。

Don’t confuse being “soft” with seeing the other guy’s point of view.

不要混淆“温柔”和看到别人的观点。