First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.

  • -- Epictetus 埃皮克特斯

首先告诉自己你想成为什么样的人;然后做你必须做的。

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I have to be very careful, however, because I have no intention of providing an excuse for this behavior. It's an attempt to explain how so many women come from backgrounds where the pressure to be a good mother is so severe that if they can't do it, something really snaps.

然而,我必须非常小心,因为我无意为这种行为提供借口。这是一个试图解释为什么这么多的女性来自这样的背景,当一个好母亲的压力是如此之大,以至于如果她们做不到,一些事情真的会发生。

Although the act of nurturing another's spiritual growth has the effect of nurturing one's own, a major characteristic of genuine love is that the distinction between oneself and the other is always maintained and preserved.

虽然培育他人精神成长的行为具有培育自己的效果,但真爱的一个主要特征是始终保持和维护自己与他人的区别。

I took three years off. I differentiated myself from the industry. Found my identity - sort of... I haven't graduated yet. I'm not legitimately educated yet, but maybe one day.

我休息了三年。我使自己与这个行业不同。找到了我的身份——有点……我还没毕业呢。我还没有接受正规的教育,但也许有一天。

When I did get home this last time, we had all these plans to go out. And then we hardly stepped outside because the time together seemed too precious.

当我上次回到家时,我们都计划着要出去玩。然后我们几乎没有出门,因为在一起的时间似乎太宝贵了。

The propagandist's purpose is to make one set of people forget that certain other sets of people are human.

宣传者的目的是让一群人忘记某些人是人。

The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which makes you lonely.

如果你真的与众不同,那么让你与众不同的必然是让你感到孤独的东西。

Is marriage for ever? I think you get married with the intention that it will be, but who knows?

婚姻是永恒的吗?我认为你结婚的初衷是这样的,但谁知道呢?

Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.

计划因缺乏建议而失败,但有了许多顾问,计划就成功了。

We all need a firm sense of identity.

我们都需要一种坚定的认同感。

Because it’s there.

因为它的存在。