One day I realized that I wasn't getting anywhere by blaming other people for my circumstances. I finally understood: Even if you feel someone has wronged you or owes you something, no one is going to give you anything for free.

-- Mary J. Blige 玛丽布莱姬

有一天，我意识到，把自己的处境归咎于他人并没有什么好处。我终于明白了:即使你觉得有人冤枉了你或欠了你什么，没有人会免费给你任何东西。

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You can't live your life blaming your failures on your parents and what they did or didn't do for you. You're dealt the cards that you're dealt. I realised it was a waste of time to be angry at my parents and feel sorry for myself.

你不能把你的失败归咎于你的父母，以及他们为你做了什么或没有为你做什么。你已经拿到了你手上的牌。我意识到生父母的气，为自己感到难过是在浪费时间。

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The easiest thing to do, whenever you fail, is to put yourself down by blaming your lack of ability for your misfortunes.

无论什么时候你失败了，最简单的方法就是把自己的不幸归咎于自己缺乏能力。

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There is nothing that puts a man more in your debt than that he owes you nothing.

没有什么比一个人不欠你的债更让他欠你的了。

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