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Real communication happens when people feel safe.
真正的交流发生在人们感到安全的时候。
— Ken Blanchard 布兰佳
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更多好句 ↗The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.
沟通中最大的一个问题是,人们误以为沟通已经发生。
George Bernard Shaw
萧伯纳
Seek first to understand, then to be understood.Most people do not listen with the intent to understand: they listen with the intent to reply. They’re filtering everything through their own paradigms, reading their autobiography into other people’s lives.
先寻求理解,再寻求被理解。大多数人倾听的目的不是为了理解,而是为了回应。他们通过自己的范例来过滤一切,把自己的自传读给别人听。
Stephen R. Covey
科维
We are healed of a suffering only by expressing it to the full.
只有把痛苦充分表达出来,我们才能从痛苦中痊愈。
Marcel Proust
马塞尔·普鲁斯特
Good communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about defining what you say.
良好的沟通不是说你想说什么,而是定义你要说什么。
Kelli Jae Baeli
凯利·杰贝利
I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.
我知道你相信你理解我所说的话,但我不确定你是否意识到你听到的并不是我的意思。
Robert McCloskey
作者
But behavior in the human being is sometimes a defense, a way of concealing motives and thoughts, as language can be a way of hiding your thoughts and preventing communication.
但人类的行为有时是一种防御,一种隐藏动机和思想的方式,因为语言可以是一种隐藏思想和阻止交流的方式。
Abraham Maslow
亚伯拉罕·马斯洛