We must be aware of the dangers, which lie in our most generous wishes. Some paradox of our nature leads us, when once we have made our fellow men the objects of our enlightened interest, to go on to make them the objects of our pity, then of our wisdom, ultimately of our coercion.

  • -- Lionel Trilling 特里林

我们必须意识到存在于我们最慷慨的愿望中的危险。我们天性中的一些矛盾导致我们,一旦我们把我们的同胞作为我们启蒙兴趣的对象,就会继续把他们作为我们怜悯的对象,然后是智慧的对象,最终是强迫的对象。

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Giving presents is a talent; to know what a person wants, to know when and how to get it, to give it lovingly and well. Unless a character possesses this talent there is no moment more annihilating to ease than that in which a present is received and given.

送礼物是一种天赋;要知道一个人想要什么,知道何时以及如何得到它,要充满爱心地把它给予他人。除非一个角色拥有这种天赋,否则没有比接受和给予礼物更容易毁灭的时刻了。