Their lives have been largely defined by failure and you would think the prospect of marriage, which is supposed to be bountiful and hopeful, it's just really another kind of tangential thing in his life.
他们的生活在很大程度上被失败所定义，你可能会认为婚姻的前景，应该是丰富和充满希望的，这实际上是他生活中另一种离题的东西。