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Psychotherapy theory turns it all on you: you are the one who is wrong. If a kid is having trouble or is discouraged, the problem is not just inside the kid; it's also in the system, the society.

  • -- James Hillman 詹姆斯·希尔曼

心理治疗理论把一切都归咎于你:你才是错的那个人。如果一个孩子遇到麻烦或感到沮丧，问题不只是在孩子的内心;它也存在于系统和社会中。

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I don't believe in trouble. Because I think that trouble is sometimes good, sometimes bad. I've been known to be called trouble, which I think is quite a compliment. But I suppose, thinking about it, that my best and worst trouble has always had something to do with a man.

我不相信有麻烦。因为我认为麻烦有时是好事，有时是坏事。我曾被称为麻烦，我认为这是一种赞美。但是我想，我最大的和最大的麻烦总是和一个男人有关。

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Each kid has a different level of expertise and some of them are very raw and inexperienced and some are incredibly mature and experienced. So you just have to go with what they are rather than have some abstract technique that you're going to try to apply to them.

每个孩子都有不同水平的专业知识，有些孩子非常生涩，没有经验，有些孩子非常成熟，经验丰富。所以你只需要按照它们的样子来做而不是用一些抽象的技巧来尝试应用到它们上面。

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I was not a classic mother. But my kids were never palmed off to boarding school. So, I didn't bake cookies. You can buy cookies, but you can't buy love.

我不是一个典型的母亲。但我的孩子从未被骗去寄宿学校。所以，我没有烤饼干。你可以买到饼干，但买不到爱。

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You need never be discouraged or afraid. The way through difficulties has always been prepared for you, and you will find it if you exercise faith.

你永远不必气馁或害怕。克服困难的道路总是为你准备好的，如果你有信心，你就会找到它。

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Psychoanalysts believe that the only 'normal' people are those who cause no trouble either to themselves or anyone else.

精神分析学家认为，“正常”的人是那些既不会给自己也不会给别人带来麻烦的人。

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