No matter what our achievements might be, we think well of ourselves only in rare moments. We need people to bear witness against our inner judge, who keeps book on our shortcomings and transgressions. We need people to convince us that we are not as bad as we think we are.
无论我们取得了什么样的成就，我们只有在极少数的时刻才会对自己有好的评价。我们需要有人作见证，反对我们内心的审判官，因为他记录了我们的缺点和过犯。我们需要人们说服我们，我们并不像自己想象的那么坏。