把这一句，留给此刻的你

When we're dealing with the people in our family - no matter how annoying or gross they may be, no matter how self-inflicted their suffering may appear, no matter how afflicted they are with ignorance, prejudice or nose hairs - we give from the deepest parts of ourselves.

当我们和家人打交道的时候——不管他们有多讨厌或粗俗，不管他们的痛苦看起来有多自我折磨，不管他们因无知、偏见或鼻毛而多么痛苦——我们都发自内心地付出。

— Anne Lamott 安妮·拉摩特