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When we suffer anguish we return to early childhood because that is the period in which we first learnt to suffer the experience of total loss. It was more than that. It was the period in which we suffered more total losses than in all the rest of our life put together.
当我们遭受痛苦时，我们会回到童年早期，因为那是我们第一次学会承受完全失去的经历。不仅如此。在这段时间里，我们所遭受的损失比我们余生所遭受的损失加起来还要多。