I know that sounds selfish, but you have to look at what it's doing to you personally - are you frustrated because of the way people perceive you, or are you happy enough about the things you've realized about yourself that you can tolerate the way people perceive you?
我知道这听起来很自私，但你必须看看这对你个人有什么影响——你是否因为别人对你的看法而感到沮丧，还是因为你对自己所认识到的事情感到足够快乐，从而能够容忍别人对你的看法?
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