I've found that if I say what I'm really thinking and feeling, people are more likely to say what they really think and feel. The conversation becomes a real conversation.

-- Carol Gilligan 卡罗尔·吉利根

我发现，如果我说出我真正的想法和感受，人们更有可能说出他们真正的想法和感受。对话变成了真正的对话。

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I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.

我记得在我清醒的时候，我和一个人聊过我在聚会上突然觉得很尴尬。他们说，‘好吧，你应该这么做。每个人在聚会上都感到尴尬。这是一种恰当的感觉。

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The great thing is that whether we have faith or not, we are by and large very tolerant of people, whatever their particular view.

重要的是，无论我们是否有信仰，总的来说，我们对人们是非常宽容的，不管他们的观点是什么。

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Because I have the feeling that the future is so full of possibilities

因为我觉得未来充满了可能性

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People who jump to conclusions rarely alight on them.

急于下结论的人很少会得出正确的结论。

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