The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

  • -- Rachel Naomi Remen 雷门

与他人沟通最基本、最有力的方式就是倾听。只是听。也许我们给予彼此的最重要的东西就是我们的关注…爱的沉默往往比最善意的话语更能治愈伤痛,更能沟通。

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If I'm diagnosed with cancer I might become despondent, but someone young might not, and they might need connections with somebody outside their circle of family because their family is so despondent.

如果我被诊断出患有癌症,我可能会变得沮丧,但有些年轻人可能不会,他们可能需要与家人之外的人建立联系,因为他们的家人非常沮丧。

Weather means more when you have a garden. There's nothing like listening to a shower and thinking how it is soaking in around your green beans.

当你有一个花园时,天气意味着更多。没有什么比听着淋浴,想着它是如何浸泡在你的绿豆周围。

A friend is someone you can be alone with and have nothing to do and not be able to think of anything to say and be comfortable in the silence.

朋友是那种你可以一个人呆着,无事可做,想不出要说什么,在沉默中感到舒适的人。

This listening is that which will facilitate the patient's telling of his tale, the telling that can set him free.

这种倾听有助于病人讲述他的故事,这种讲述能让他获得自由。

There is no different way of saying the same thing; a different way is a different thing.

同一件事没有不同的说法;不同的方法是不同的事。

Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it.

与人的每一次接触都是如此的珍贵,应该保存下来。

Women get the attention when we get into the men's arena, and that's sad.

当我们进入男子赛场时,女性会引起注意,这很可悲。

Curiosity is as much the parent of attention, as attention is of memory.

好奇心是注意力的来源,正如注意力是记忆的来源一样。

My mother and I always had full adult communication.

我妈妈和我总是有充分的成人沟通。

Speaking silence is better than senseless speech.

沉默胜于无谓的言语。