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The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

  • -- Rachel Naomi Remen 雷门

与他人沟通最基本、最有力的方式就是倾听。只是听。也许我们给予彼此的最重要的东西就是我们的关注…爱的沉默往往比最善意的话语更能治愈伤痛，更能沟通。

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One learns more from listening than speaking.And both the wind and the people who continue to live close to nature still have much to tell us which we cannot hear within university walls.

一个人从听中学到的比从说中学到的多。风和那些继续贴近大自然生活的人们仍然有很多东西要告诉我们，而这些东西我们在大学的围墙里是听不到的。

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We cannot live for ourselves alone. Our lives are connected by a thousand invisible threads, and along these sympathetic fibers, our actions run as causes and return to us as results

我们不能独自生活。我们的生活由上千条看不见的线连接在一起，沿着这些交感神经纤维，我们的行为作为原因运行，作为结果返回给我们

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Communication is a skill that you can learn. It's like riding a bicycle or typing. If you're willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of every part of your life.

沟通是一种你可以学习的技能。就像骑自行车或打字一样。如果你愿意去做，你就能迅速提高你生活的每一部分的质量。

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And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

当我们让自己的光芒闪耀时，我们无意识地允许别人也这样做。当我们从恐惧中解放出来时，我们的存在自动地解放了他人。

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The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

谈话的真正艺术不只是在正确的地方说正确的话，而是在诱人的时刻不说错误的话。

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Never be a spectator of unfairness or stupidity. The grave will supply plenty of time for silence.

永远不要做不公平或愚蠢的旁观者。坟墓会给你足够的时间保持沉默。

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As I get older, I’ve learned to listen to people rather than accuse them of things.

随着年龄的增长，我学会了倾听别人而不是指责他们。

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If you were seeking my attention, I suggest you look somewhere else.

如果你想引起我的注意，我建议你去别的地方看看。

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The capacity for delight is the gift of paying attention.

快乐的能力是集中注意力的天赋。

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Silence is as deep as eternity, speech a shallow as time.

沉默如永恒之深，言语如时间之浅。

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