With some people solitariness is an escape not from others but from themselves. For they see in the eyes of others only a reflection of themselves.

  • -- Eric Hoffer 埃里克·霍弗

对有些人来说,孤独不是逃避他人,而是逃避自己。因为他们在别人的眼中只看到自己的影子。

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I've been with the same person for a very long time but I'm just non-conventional in that way. I don't think people need to be married. I think a lot of people need that piece of paper, but I don't think everybody needs that to feel secure.

我和同一个人在一起很长一段时间了,但我就是不习惯那样。我不认为人们需要结婚。我想很多人都需要那张纸,但我不认为每个人都需要它来获得安全感。

Marriage is a reflection of your life in general: how you treat people, how you argue, how secure you are in your own thoughts. How vehemently do you argue your point of view? With what disdain do you view the other's point of view?

婚姻是你生活的一个整体反映:你如何对待别人,你如何争论,你在自己的思想中有多安全。你对自己的观点争论得有多激烈?你用什么样的蔑视来看待别人的观点?

A few years ago, one of our singles got beaten out by Better Than Ezra. The label could only have one band at a time being taken to the right people at radio, and they opted for Better Than Ezra instead of us. Who knows.

几年前,我们的一首单曲被比以斯拉更好的打败了。唱片公司每次只能有一个乐队被带到电台的正确的人那里,他们选择了比以斯拉更好的人,而不是我们。谁知道呢。

Maybe in past years, perhaps women didn't feel quite as comfortable with revealing themselves, and their skills and their crafts... and now we are, so we're out there, just like the guys.

也许在过去的几年里,女性对展示自己、展示自己的技能和手艺感到不那么自在……现在我们在,所以我们在外面,就像那些人一样。

I found in my whole career the best thing that can happen to you is that you hear what people want.

我发现在我的整个职业生涯中,最好的事情就是你能听到人们想要什么。

Without deep reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people.

没有深刻的反思,一个人从日常生活中知道自己是为别人而存在的。