Understand that it is often unwise to forgive face to face. This tends to make the other person feel 'put down' and make you look holier-than-thou.

要明白,当面原谅往往是不明智的。这往往会让对方感到“被贬低”,让你看起来比自己更神圣。

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But Paul, in his preaching of the Gospel, is a debtor to deliver the word not to Barbarians only, but also to Greeks, and not only to the unwise, who would easily agree with him, but also to the wise.

但保罗在传福音的时候,不但欠外邦人的债,也欠希利尼人的债。不但欠那轻易敌挡他的愚拙人的债,也欠那智慧人的债。

It is gratifying to note how scriptural words like justice, peace, forgiveness have become the lingua franca of the peace process,

我们很高兴地注意到,诸如正义、和平、宽恕等圣经用语已成为和平进程的通用语,

Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms the heart and cools the sting.

宽恕是一件有趣的事情。它温暖心脏,冷却刺痛。