Understand that it is often unwise to forgive face to face. This tends to make the other person feel 'put down' and make you look holier-than-thou.

要明白,当面原谅往往是不明智的。这往往会让对方感到“被贬低”,让你看起来比自己更神圣。

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Lord, make me an instrument of your peace; where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; and where there is sadness, joy

耶和华阿,求你使我作你平安的器皿。哪里有仇恨,就让我播下爱的种子;哪里有伤害,哪里就宽恕;哪里有怀疑,哪里就有信仰;哪里有绝望,哪里就有希望;哪里有黑暗,哪里就有光明;哪里有悲伤,哪里就有快乐

But Paul, in his preaching of the Gospel, is a debtor to deliver the word not to Barbarians only, but also to Greeks, and not only to the unwise, who would easily agree with him, but also to the wise.

但保罗在传福音的时候,不但欠外邦人的债,也欠希利尼人的债。不但欠那轻易敌挡他的愚拙人的债,也欠那智慧人的债。

My great mistake, the fault for which I can't forgive myself, is that one day I ceased my obstinate pursuit of my own individuality.

我最大的错误,我不能原谅自己的错误,是有一天我停止了对自己个性的固执追求。

It is most unwise for people in love to marry.

恋爱中的人结婚是最不明智的。