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The first duty of a human being is to assume the right functional relationship to society -- more briefly, to find your real job, and do it.
人类的首要职责是与社会建立起正确的功能性关系——更简单地说，找到你真正的工作，然后去做。
When a true relationship work the tiny bumps in the road don't matter. You don't have to be scared because there's never any real jeopardy.
当一段真正的感情开始时，路上的小坎坷并不重要。你不必害怕，因为从来没有真正的危险。
Our inventions are wont to be pretty toys, which distract our attention from serious things. They are but improved means to an unimproved end.
我们的发明往往是漂亮的玩具，分散我们的注意力从严肃的事情。它们只是改进的手段，以达到未改进的目的。
You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.
你不可能每天都通过快乐的人际关系来培养勇气。你通过度过困难时期和挑战逆境来发展它。
I’ve been fighting to be who I am all my life. What’s the point of being who I am, if I can’t have the person who was worth all the fighting for?
我一生都在为做自己而奋斗。如果我不能拥有一个值得我为之奋斗的人，那么做我自己又有什么意义呢?
For most women, the language of conversation is primarily a language of rapport: a way of establishing connections and negotiating relationships.
对大多数女性来说，谈话的语言主要是一种和谐的语言:一种建立联系和协商关系的方式。
I've seen women who don't have great relationships with their dads, and it all comes down to this: You have to tell girls you love them every day.
我见过和父亲关系不好的女性，归根结底就是:你必须每天告诉女孩你爱她们。
I look back to where my life had been. It's always risky to think of letting go. That's why this is the perfect ending. Nothing left to reconcile.
我回顾了我的生活。想要放手总是有风险的。这就是为什么这是一个完美的结局。没有什么可以调和的了。
By having a reverence for life, we enter into a spiritual relation with the world By practicing reverence for life we become good, deep, and alive.
通过对生命的崇敬，我们与世界建立了一种精神上的联系，通过对生命的崇敬，我们变得善良、深沉、充满活力。
There is an energy field between humans. And, when we reach out in passion, it is met with an answering passion and changes the relationship forever.
人类之间有一个能量场。当我们满怀激情地伸出手时，对方也会报以同样的热情，并永远地改变我们之间的关系。
If we are to feel the positive feelings of love, happiness, trust, and gratitude, we periodically also have to feel anger, sadness, fear, and sorrow.
如果我们想感受爱、幸福、信任和感激的积极感觉，我们也必须周期性地感到愤怒、悲伤、恐惧和悲伤。
Intimate relationships cannot substitute for a life plan, but to have any meaning or viability at all, a life plan must include intimate relationships.
亲密的关系不能代替生活计划，但要有任何意义或可行性，生活计划必须包括亲密的关系。
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They had, finally, the only thing anyone really wants in life: someone to hold your hand when you die.
最后，他们终于拥有了生命中任何人真正想要的东西:在你离开人世时，有人能握着你的手。
A person of definite character and purpose who comprehends our way of thought is sure to exert power over us. He cannot altogether be resisted; because, if he understands us, he can make us understand him, through the word, the look, or other symbol.
一个有明确性格和目标的人，他理解我们的思维方式，一定会对我们施加力量。不能完全抗拒他;因为，如果他了解我们，他可以让我们了解他，通过文字、表情或其他符号。
Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. That's relativity.
把你的手放在热炉子上一分钟，就像一个小时。和一个漂亮女孩一起坐一个小时，感觉就像一分钟。这就是相对论。
It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important.
在人际关系和所有任务中，我们似乎必须只专注于最重要的事情。
You should go into every relationship as a brick and not a blanket.
每段感情都应该像一块砖，而不是毯子。
But without deeper reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people--first of all for those upon whose smiles and well-being our own happiness is wholly dependent, and then for the many, unknown to us, to whose destinies we are bound by the ties of sympathy.
但是，不需要深入思考，我们就能从日常生活中了解到，我们是为别人而存在的——首先是为那些我们的幸福完全依赖于他们的微笑和幸福的人而存在，其次是为那些我们不认识的人而存在，他们的命运与我们的同情息息相关。