A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
担心
Worry
I am looking forward to going to Dubai because it gives us an opportunity to interact with each other. We can sit and enjoy each other's company. We can go out for a walk without worrying about shooting schedules.
我期待着去迪拜,因为它给了我们一个相互交流的机会。我们可以坐下来享受彼此的陪伴。我们可以出去散步而不用担心拍摄日程。
Despite having written five books, I worry that I have not written the right kinds of books, or that perhaps I have dedicated too much of my life to writing, and have therefore neglected other aspects of my being.
尽管我已经写了五本书,但我担心我没有写对类型的书,或者也许我把太多的时间投入到写作中,因此忽略了我存在的其他方面。
Of course I realized there was a measure of danger. Obviously I faced the possibility of not returning when I first considered going. Once faced and settled there really wasn't any good reason to refer to it again.
当然,我意识到存在一定程度的危险。显然,当我第一次考虑去的时候,我面临着不回去的可能性。一旦面对并安定下来,真的没有任何好的理由再提起它。
Some of the things you read you get an immediate reaction to so I've stopped reading things now. I do worry about my family though. Some people do try some nasty things to get at them and try and get a reaction from them.
你读到的一些东西会立即产生反应,所以我现在不读了。不过我很担心我的家人。有些人确实会做一些卑鄙的事情来接近他们,并试图得到他们的反应。
Worry never climbed a hill, worry never paid a bill, Worry never dried a tear, worry never calmed a fear, Worry never darned a heel, worry never cooked a meal, It never led a horse to water, nor ever did a thing it "oughter."
忧虑从来没有爬山,忧虑从来没有付账,忧虑从来没有擦干一滴眼泪,忧虑从来没有平息过恐惧,忧虑从来没有补上一只脚,忧虑从来没有做过一顿饭,忧虑从来没有把马带到河边,也从来没有做过一件“应该”做的事。
I think these difficult times have helped me to understand better than before how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way, and that so many things that one goes around worrying about are of no importance whatsoever.
我想,这些艰难的时刻帮助我比以前更清楚地认识到,生活在各个方面是多么丰富多彩,多么美好,人们四处担忧的那么多事情根本不重要。
As long as the number one worry for people, keeping them up at nights, is whether they're going to have a job in the morning, then they are less likely to resist unfair changes, or unfair treatment, or cuts in real pay at work.
只要人们最担心的事情,让他们夜不能寐的事情,是他们是否要在早上工作,那么他们就不太可能抗拒不公平的改变,不公平的待遇,或者是工作中实际工资的削减。
I'm happiest at home hanging out with the kids... Having a family has been my saving grace because I don't work back to back on anything or I'd drive myself to an early grave with guilt and worry for my family, whom I'd never see.
我最开心的时候是在家和孩子们一起玩……拥有一个家庭一直是我的可取之处,因为我不会在任何事情上反反复复地工作,也不会带着罪恶感和对我永远见不到的家人的担忧早早地进入坟墓。
There are things you do when you're writing that are so fun to do it's almost like they're private jokes that are amusing to you but no one else is going to enjoy them nearly as much and you worry you're going to have to take them out in the end.
有些事情当你写作很有趣就像他们私人的笑话有趣的你,但没有人会享受他们几乎和你一样担心你要带他们出去。
Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can-and surely will at times-fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.
接受这样一个事实:我们所有人都可能受到伤害,我们所有人都可能——而且肯定会——失败。其他的弱点,比如尴尬或冒着爱的风险,也可能是可怕的。我认为我们应该遵循一个简单的规则:如果我们能做最坏的打算,那就冒险吧。
When you worry, you go over the same ground endlessly and come out the same place you started. Thinking, on the other hand, makes progress from one place to another. ... The problem of life is to change worry into thinking, and anxiety into creative action.
当你担心的时候,你会无休止地走同样的路,然后回到你开始的地方。另一方面,思考使人从一个地方进步到另一个地方。生活的问题是把忧虑变成思考,把焦虑变成创造。
This is a very important practice. Live your daily life in a way that you never lose yourself. When you are carried away with your worries, fears, cravings, anger, and desire, you run away from yourself and you lose yourself. The practice is always to go back to oneself.
这是一个非常重要的实践。以一种永不迷失自我的方式过好你的日常生活。当你被忧虑、恐惧、渴望、愤怒和欲望冲昏头脑时,你就会逃离自己,失去自我。修行总是要回到自己身上。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
You wouldn't worry about what others think of you if only you realized how seldom they do.
你不必担心别人怎么看你,只要你意识到他们很少这样做。
We have to fight them daily, like fleas, those many small worries about the morrow, for they sap our energies.
我们每天都要和它们作斗争,就像跳蚤一样,因为它们会消耗我们的精力。
Fear is pain arising from the anticipation of evil.
恐惧是因对邪恶的预期而产生的痛苦。
Worry is a state of mind based on fear.
担忧是一种基于恐惧的心理状态。
I have no regrets. I wouldn't have lived my life the way I did if I was going to worry about what people were going to say.
我不后悔。如果我担心别人会怎么说,我就不会有现在这样的生活。
You wouldn't worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.
如果你意识到别人对你的看法是多么的少,你就不会那么担心了。