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冲突
Conflict
If you actually succeed in creating a utopia, you've created a world without conflict, in which everything is perfect. And if there's no conflict, there are no stories worth telling - or reading!
如果你真的成功地创造了一个乌托邦，你就创造了一个没有冲突的世界，在那里一切都是完美的。如果没有冲突，就没有值得讲述或阅读的故事!
I believe without exception that theory follows practice. Whenever there is a conflict between theory and practice, theory is wrong. As far as I'm concerned, we make theories for what people have done.
我毫无例外地相信理论遵循实践。当理论和实践发生冲突时，理论就是错误的。就我而言，我们为人们所做的事情做理论。
There's something to play if there's conflict going on. Whatever that conflict is, that's where drama is; if the character is grappling with something you've got something to play, there's layers to it.
如果发生冲突，就会有办法解决。无论冲突是什么，这就是戏剧的所在;如果角色正在与你要玩的东西做斗争，那是有层次的。
In dwelling, live close to the ground. In thinking, keep to the simple. In conflict, be fair and generous. In governing, don't try to control. In work, do what you enjoy. In family life, be completely present.
在住所里，住在离地面近的地方。在思考时，保持简单。在冲突中，要公平和慷慨。在管理中，不要试图去控制。在工作中，做你喜欢做的事。在家庭生活中，完全活在当下。
A successful work of art is not one which resolves contradictions in a spurious harmony, but one which expresses the idea of harmony negatively by embodying the contradictions, pure and uncompromised, in its innermost structure.
一件成功的艺术作品，不是在虚假的和谐中消解矛盾，而是在其最内在的结构中，把纯粹的、毫不妥协的矛盾，以消极的方式表达和谐的理念。
There are three ways of dealing with difference: domination, compromise, and integration. By domination only one side gets what it wants; by compromise neither side gets what it wants; by integration we find a way by which both sides may get what they wish.
有三种处理差异的方法:支配、妥协和融合。通过统治，只有一方得到了它想要的;通过妥协，双方都得不到自己想要的;通过整合，我们找到了一条双方都能如愿以偿的道路。
The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.
事实上，我们最美好的时刻最有可能发生在我们感到非常不舒服、不开心或不满足的时候。因为只有在这样的时刻，由我们的不适所推动，我们才有可能走出我们的常规，开始寻找不同的方式或更真实的答案。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
A man can do what he wants, but not want what he wants.
一个人可以做他想做的事，但不能要他想要的。
There are two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone who won't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?
有两个难题让人类头盖骨直打颤:你如何抓住一个不肯留下的人?你如何摆脱一个不愿去的人呢?
Difficulties are meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong by conflict.
困难是用来振奋人心的，而不是用来打击士气的。人类的精神是通过冲突而变得强大。
Conditions for creativity are to be puzzled; to concentrate; to accept conflict and tension; to be born everyday; to feel a sense of self.
创造的条件是令人困惑的;集中;接受冲突和紧张;每天出生;去感受自我。
Trust not a spiteful man.
不要相信怀有恶意的人。
You cannot simultaneously prevent and prepare for war.
你不能同时预防和准备战争。