A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
原谅
Forgive
A wise man will make haste to forgive, because he knows the true value of time, and will not suffer it to pass away in unnecessary pain.
明智的人会急于宽恕,因为他知道时间的真正价值,不会让它在不必要的痛苦中逝去。
Life is short. Break the rules forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile.
生命是短暂的。打破常规快速原谅,慢慢亲吻,真心相爱,控制不住大笑,永远不要为任何让你微笑的事情后悔。
I didn't have a catharsis for my childhood pain, most of us don't, and until I learned how to forgive those people and let it go, I was unhappy.
我童年的痛苦没有得到宣泄,我们大多数人都没有,直到我学会原谅那些人,让它过去,我才感到不快乐。
Love yourself accept yourself forgive yourself and be good to yourself because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things.
爱你自己,接受自己,原谅自己,善待自己,因为没有你,我们就没有了许多美好事物的源泉。
Forget yesterday - it has already forgotten you. Don't sweat tomorrow - you haven't even met. Instead, open your eyes and your heart to a truly precious gift - today.
忘记昨天——它已经忘记了你。明天别着急,你们还没见过面呢。相反,打开你的眼睛和你的心去接受一份真正珍贵的礼物——今天。
I forgive myself for not being perfect. I recognize we're all not perfect. I am open to forgiving others. I value persistence insights and growth far more than perfection.
我原谅自己不够完美。我知道我们都不是完美的。我愿意原谅别人。比起完美,我更看重持久的洞察力和成长。
I really don't think life is about the I-could-have-beens. Life is only about the I-tried-to-do. I don't mind the failure but I can't imagine that I'd forgive myself if I didn't try.
我真的不认为生活是关于“我本可以”的。生活只是我尝试去做的事。我不介意失败,但如果我不去尝试,我无法想象我会原谅自己。
I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note - torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.
我可以原谅,但我不能忘记,只是另一种说法,我不会原谅。宽恕应该像一张作废的便条——撕成两半,烧掉,这样它就永远不会对一个人显现出来。
God will forgive me the foolish remarks I have made about Him just as I will forgive my opponents the foolish things they have written about me, even though they are spiritually as inferior to me as I to thee, O God!
神必饶恕我对他所说的愚妄话,正如我也必饶恕我的对头,就是他们向我所写的愚妄话。虽然他们在灵性上不如我,正如我在灵性上不如你一样。
When we forgive evil we do not excuse it, we do not tolerate it, we do not smother it. We look the evil full in the face, call it what it is, let its horror shock and stun and enrage us, and only then do we forgive it.
当我们原谅罪恶时,我们不会原谅它,我们不会容忍它,我们不会扼杀它。我们直面邪恶,不管它是什么,让它的恐怖震撼、震撼、激怒我们,只有这样我们才会原谅它。
I had to learn to forgive. I couldn't sleep at night. I got ulcers. I had to let go, to let God deal with it. No one wants to be mad in their own house. I didn't want to be angry my whole life. It takes so much energy out of you to be mean.
我必须学会原谅。我晚上睡不着。我有溃疡。我不得不放手,让上帝来处理这件事。没有人想在自己家里发疯。我一生都不想生气。你太小气了,这要消耗你太多精力。
I'm generally slow to anger, quick to forgive, and I take in information before making decisions. So no matter how controversial the decision, my general demeanour is to put on white lab coat and gloves and look at the evidence, weigh the arguments and see what makes sense.
我通常不容易生气,但很快就会原谅别人,而且在做决定前我会收集信息。所以,不管这个决定有多么有争议,我的一般做法是穿上白色的实验服,戴上手套,看看证据,权衡一下论点,看看什么是合理的。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
God may forgive your sins, but your nervous system won't.
上帝也许会原谅你的罪,但你的神经系统不会。
You only have to forgive once. To resent, you have to do it all day, every day. You have to keep remembering the bad things.
你只需要原谅一次。要心怀怨恨,你必须整天都这样,每天都这样。你必须记住不好的事情。
I do not bring forgiveness with me, nor forgetfulness. The only ones who can forgive are dead; the living have no right to forget.
我没有带来宽恕,也没有带来遗忘。唯一能宽恕的人已经死了;活着的人没有权利忘记。
If only i knew what you thought i would forgive myself...
如果我知道你认为我会原谅我自己…
Beware of the man who does not return your blow: he neither forgives you nor allows you to forgive yourself.
你要防备那不报答你的人。他既不饶恕你,也不叫你饶恕自己。
It's a lie, but Heaven will forgive you for it.
这是谎话,但上天会原谅你的。