A man who doesn't trust himself can never really trust anyone else.

一个不信任自己的人永远不会真正信任别人。

A thoroughly good relationship with ourselves results in being still, which doesn't mean we don't run and jump and dance about. It means there's no compulsiveness. We don't overwork, overeat, oversmoke, overseduce. In short, we begin to stop causing harm.

与自己保持良好的关系会让我们保持静止，但这并不意味着我们不会到处跑、跳、跳。这意味着没有强迫性。我们不会过度工作，过度饮食，过度吸烟，过度诱惑。简而言之，我们开始停止制造伤害。

Alas, the fearful Unbelief is unbelief in yourself.

唉，可怕的不相信就是不相信自己。

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

当我们让自己的光芒闪耀时，我们无意识地允许别人也这样做。当我们从恐惧中解放出来时，我们的存在自动地解放了他人。

For now, for this year, I need to be a good mother.

现在，今年，我需要做一个好妈妈。

How many times do you need to get hurt for you to know its time to let go.

你需要受伤多少次，才会知道是时候放手了。

I cannot consistently, with self respect, do other than I have, namely, to deliberately violate an act which seems to me to be a denial of everything which ideally and in practice I hold sacred.

除了我所做的，即故意违反一项在我看来是否定一切我理想和实践上认为神圣的行为之外，我不能一贯地出于自尊去做其他事。

I have no right, by anything I do or say, to demean a human being in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him; it is what he thinks of himself. To undermine a man's self-respect is a sin.

无论我做什么或说什么，我都没有权利在一个人的眼里贬低他。重要的不是我对他的看法;这是他对自己的看法。破坏一个人的自尊是一种罪过。

I long, as does every human being, to be at home wherever I find myself.

和每个人一样，我渴望无论身在何处都能感到自在。

I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence.

我宁愿做真实的自己，即使冒着招致他人嘲笑的危险，也不愿做虚假的自己，招致自己的憎恶。

I think somehow we learn who we really are and then live with that decision.

我想我们可以通过某种方式了解自己，然后接受这个决定。

I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.

我希望我能在你孤独的时候或在黑暗中向你展示你自己惊人的光芒。

If one is estranged from oneself, then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others.

如果一个人疏远了自己，那么他也就疏远了别人。如果一个人脱离了自己，那么他就无法触及他人。

If someone in your life talked to you the way you talk to yourself, you would have left them long ago.

如果你生命中的某个人用你对自己说话的方式对你说话，你早就离开他们了。

If we could learn to like ourselves, even a little, maybe our cruelties and angers might melt away.

如果我们能学会喜欢自己，哪怕是一点点，也许我们的残忍和愤怒就会消失。