A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
分手
Break Up
I'd rather be single than cheated on lied to and forgotten save me the heartache.
我宁愿单身，也不愿被骗，被骗，被遗忘，省得我心痛。
For some Chicago expats, food is the medicine that blunts the pain of separation.
对于一些在芝加哥工作的人来说，食物是一种减轻分手痛苦的良药。
People feel the need to choose sides when a relationship splits it's human nature.
当一段关系破裂时，人们觉得有必要选择立场，这是人之常情。
Too many couples break up without understanding the consequences for their families.
太多的夫妻在不了解其家庭后果的情况下就分手了。
I had a really kind of yucky divorce and it was really challenging to get over that.
我经历了一段非常不愉快的离婚经历，克服它真的很有挑战性。
Not all relationships are meant to last, they’re just practice for the one that does.
并不是所有的关系都能持久，它们只是为那个能持久的人而进行的练习。
I could not bounce back from my divorce - emotionally - I just could not bounce back.
我无法从离婚中恢复过来——情感上——我就是无法恢复过来。
Now thou hast loved me one whole day, Tomorrow when thou leav’st, what wilt thou say?
现在你已经爱了我一整天，明天当你离开的时候，你会说些什么呢?
I've seen people go through divorces and stuff, crossroads that don't end well. Often.
我见过有人经历离婚之类的事情，走到十字路口却没有好下场。经常。
Was it something I said To make you turn away? To make you walk out and leave me cold.
是我说了什么让你转过身去吗?让你走出去，让我感到寒冷。
Thinking so hard on her soft eyes and memories of the signs that it's over. It's over.
想着她那温柔的眼睛，回忆着一切结束的迹象。这是结束了。
When we separated, I did not want to get in a slugfest. I had to take the high ground.
我们分手时，我不想打架。我必须占据制高点。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
I wish we'd never got divorced. He and I both wish we'd never got divorced, but we did. I wish I could go back and be the bride again, but I can't.
我希望我们从未离婚。他和我都希望我们永远不要离婚，但我们离婚了。我希望我能回去再做新娘，但是我不能。
(On seeing a former lover for the first time in years) I thought I told you to wait in the car.
(多年来第一次见到以前的爱人)我想我告诉过你在车里等着。
One of the hardest things you'll ever have to do is to stop loving someone because they've stopped loving you.
你要做的最困难的事情之一就是停止爱一个人，因为他们已经不再爱你了。
I wrote most of these songs right before the end. A lot of these songs are about that. Even if it's not direct, you can feel the beginning of the end of the breakup in these songs.
这些歌大部分是我在结尾之前写的。很多歌曲都是关于这个的。即使不是直接的，你也可以在这些歌曲中感受到分手的开始。
One way to break up any kind of tension is good deep breathing.
打破紧张的一个方法就是深呼吸。
She got the magazine on a Wednesday morning, and on Thursday announced our marriage was over.
她是在周三早上拿到这本杂志的，周四她宣布我们的婚姻结束了。