Seek first to understand, then to be understood.Most people do not listen with the intent to understand: they listen with the intent to reply. They’re filtering everything through their own paradigms, reading their autobiography into other people’s lives.
先寻求理解，再寻求被理解。大多数人倾听的目的不是为了理解，而是为了回应。他们通过自己的范例来过滤一切，把自己的自传读给别人听。
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