When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.

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当我们诚实地问自己生命中谁对我们最重要时，我们常常发现，是那些人，他们没有给出建议、解决方案或治愈方法，而是选择与我们分享痛苦，用温暖而温柔的手触摸我们的伤口。

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It seems to me that everyone on this planet whom I know or have worked with is suffering from self-hatred and guilt to one degree or another. The more self-hatred and guilt we have, the less our lives work. The less self-hatred and guilt we have, the better our lives work, on all levels.

在我看来，这个星球上我认识或共事过的每一个人都或多或少地遭受着自我憎恨和负罪感的折磨。我们的自我憎恨和罪恶感越多，我们的生活就越没有意义。我们的自我憎恨和罪恶感越少，我们的生活在各个层面上就会越好。

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In the last analysis, the individual person is responsible for living his own life and for "finding himself." If he persists in shifting his responsibility to somebody else, he fails to find out the meaning of his own existence.

归根到底，个人要对自己的生活负责，对“发现自己”负责。如果他坚持把自己的责任转移给别人，他就不能发现自己存在的意义。

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The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?

我能为我的朋友做的最多的就是做他的朋友。我没有钱给他。如果他知道我爱他是幸福的，他就不要别的报酬了。难道友谊不是神圣的吗?

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We sat around and I fed them barbecue and whiskey. And pretty soon everyone started to compete with each other on the guitars. It seemed the more everyone drank and ate, the more everyone got into it.

我们围坐在一起，我喂他们烧烤和威士忌。很快，每个人都开始在吉他上互相竞争。似乎每个人喝得越多，吃得越多，就越沉迷其中。

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A comfortable old age is the reward of a well-spent youth. Instead of its bringing sad and melancholy prospects of decay, it would give us hopes of eternal youth in a better world.

一个舒适的晚年是一个度过美好青春的奖赏。它不会给我们带来衰败的凄凉前景，而会给我们带来在更美好的世界里永葆青春的希望。

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My life in general and the thoughts it beholds are never dedicated to a certain road. Rather they flow with the wind, changing directions as the mountains steer them sideways.

总的来说，我的生活和它所包含的思想从来没有献身于某条道路。相反，它们随风而动，随着山脉的倾斜而改变方向。

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Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience, and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.

我们真正的幸福往往以痛苦、损失和失望的形式呈现在我们面前;但是让我们有耐心，我们很快就会看到他们的真面目。

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Much education today is monumentally ineffective. All too often we are giving young people cut flowers when we should be teaching them to grow their own plants.

今天的很多教育都非常低效。我们常常在应该教年轻人自己种花的时候，却给他们插花。

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In Psychology we deal with minds and their processes, and leave out of account as far as possible the objects that we get to know by means of them.

在心理学中，我们处理思想及其过程，并尽可能地忽略我们通过它们所了解的对象。

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The genius of a good leader is to leave behind him a situation which common sense, without the grace of genius, can deal with successfully.

一个好的领导者的天才之处在于，他留下了一个没有天才风度的常识可以成功处理的局面。

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I'm a bit of a caveman - I don't go out into the digital space very often. I lie facedown on the grass and count how many bugs I can find.

我有点像穴居人——我不经常去数字空间。我面朝下躺在草地上，数着我能找到多少只虫子。

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All myths that are something more than fancies gain rather than lose in value with time, by reason of the accretions of human experience.

所有神话都不仅仅是幻想，而是随着时间的推移，由于人类经验的积累而获得而不是失去价值。

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The majority of men meet with failure because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to take the place of those which fail.

大多数人失败是因为他们缺乏坚持去制定新的计划来代替那些失败的计划。

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A mother's life, you see, is one long succession of dramas, now soft and tender, now terrible. Not an hour but has its joys and fears.

你看，母亲的一生是一出接一出的戏剧，时而温柔，时而可怕。一个小时也有欢乐和恐惧。

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When it comes to having a central nervous system, and the ability to feel pain, hunger, and thirst, a rat is a pig is a dog is a boy.

说到中枢神经系统，以及感觉疼痛、饥饿和口渴的能力，老鼠是猪，狗是男孩。

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There is no detachment where there is no pain. And there is no pain endured without hatred or lying unless detachment is present too.

没有痛苦就没有超脱。没有仇恨，没有谎言，就没有痛苦。

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What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear.

孤独之所以成为一种痛苦，不是因为没有人分担我的负担，而是因为我只有自己的负担。

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It's bad enough that I'm an actress that wants to be recognized as an actress. Instead, I am known for doing game shows.

我是一个想要被认可为女演员的女演员，这已经够糟糕的了。相反，我以做游戏节目而闻名。

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There are those who look at things the way they are, and ask why... I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?

有些人看待事物的方式，并问为什么……我梦想着从未有过的事情，问为什么不呢?

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Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.

对所有人都要有礼貌，但对少数人要有亲密的关系，让那些少数人在你给他们信心之前得到充分的考验。

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I don't think my name would necessarily draw people to come see the movie. It might hurt the movie, honestly.

我不认为我的名字一定会吸引人们来看这部电影。说实话，这可能会伤害到电影。

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I wish I could say it's easy, but honestly, to get ready for a big championship is not as easy as it seems.

我希望我能说这很容易，但老实说，为一个大的冠军做准备并不像看起来那么容易。

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One of the most adventurous things left us is to go to bed. For no one can lay a hand on our dreams.

留给我们的最冒险的事情之一就是上床睡觉。因为没有人能阻止我们的梦想。

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Instead of complaining that the rosebush is full of thorns, be happy the thorn bush has roses.

与其抱怨玫瑰丛布满了刺，不如为刺丛里有玫瑰而感到高兴。

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We understand God by everything in ourselves that is fragmentary, incomplete, and inopportune.

我们藉著自己身上一切残缺的、不完全的、不合时宜的，来认识神。

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If we have anything kind to say, any tender sentiment to express, we feel a sense of shame.

如果我们有什么好话要说，有什么柔情要表达，我们会感到羞愧。

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If you haven't got any charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart trouble.

如果你心里没有任何慈善，你就有最严重的心脏病。

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While I relish our warm months, winter forms our character and brings out our best.

当我享受我们温暖的月份时，冬天形成了我们的性格，展现了我们最好的一面。

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Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young.

深爱的人永远不会变老;他们可能因年老而死，但却英年早逝。

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It's peaceful for people to know how their lives are going to be, pretty much.

对人们来说，知道自己的生活将会怎样是一件很平静的事情。

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Law is nothing unless close behind it stands a warm, living public opinion.

除非法律的背后站着一种热烈的、活生生的公众舆论，否则它什么也不是。

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We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude.

我们常常把最值得感恩的事情视为理所当然。

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A wound that goes unacknowledged and unwept is a wound that cannot heal.

不被承认、不哭泣的伤口是无法愈合的。

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The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm.

找到一只援助之手的最好地方是在你自己手臂的末端。

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A good laugh and a long sleep are the two best cures for anything.

开怀大笑和长眠是治疗任何疾病的最好方法。

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I know who I am as a person, as a father, and as a husband.

作为一个人，作为一个父亲，作为一个丈夫，我知道我是谁。

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I don't want to share my worries - that's for me to know.

我不想分享我的烦恼——这是我应该知道的。

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Never ask a question if you can’t handle the answer.

如果你不能回答问题，就不要问。

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It's the playoffs. You find a way to get through.

这是季后赛。你总能找到办法度过难关。

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I'm the first person in my family to play poker.

我是家里第一个打扑克的人。

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A good name is rather to be chosen than riches.

美名胜于财富。

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The love we give away is the only love we keep.

我们付出的爱是我们唯一拥有的爱。

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Of two evils, the less is always to be chosen.

两害相权取其轻。

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Art is a lie that makes us realize the truth.

艺术是使我们认识真理的谎言。

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Dreams are the touchstones of our character.

梦想是我们性格的试金石。

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Stability means respecting precedents.

稳定意味着尊重先例。

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Now is the winter of our discontent.

现在是我们不满的冬天。

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Our intention creates our reality.

我们的意图创造了我们的现实。

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Solutions are not the answer.

解决方案不是答案。

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The sun's touch is kind.

阳光的抚摸是仁慈的。

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When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.

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