There are three musts that hold us back: I must do well. You must treat me well. And the world must be easy.

  • -- Albert Ellis 艾伯特·埃利斯

有三件事拖了我们的后腿:我必须做好。你必须好好待我。世界必须变得简单。

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Archery is not a sport for everyone. The equipment costs a lot, and it is not easy for everyone to find a place to play. It is perhaps similar to golf, but of course there are more golf courses than archery fields.

射箭不是每个人都能参加的运动。设备很贵,而且对每个人来说找到一个玩的地方都不容易。它可能类似于高尔夫,但当然有更多的高尔夫球场比射箭场。

All of us, whether guilty or not, whether old or young, must accept the past. It is not a case of coming to terms with the past. That is not possible. It cannot be subsequently modified or undone.

我们所有人,无论有罪与否,无论年老或年轻,都必须接受过去。这不是与过去妥协的问题。这是不可能的。它随后不能修改或撤消。

There are two ways of talking. One is the easy way, where you talk lightly, and the other one is the considered way. The considered way is what I have put my name to.

有两种说话的方式。一种是简单的方式,你可以轻松地交谈,另一种是经过深思熟虑的方式。经过深思熟虑的方法是我的名字。

Everything we say signifies; everything counts, that we put out into the world. It impacts on kids, it impacts on the zeitgeist of the time.

我们所说的一切都有意义;我们向世界展示的一切都很重要。它影响着孩子们,它影响着时代精神。

It’s not important if you fall over. What is important is how quickly you get back up.

摔倒并不重要。重要的是你能多快地站起来。

The thing about coming back to the Bay Area, it's like coming home for me.

回到旧金山湾区,对我来说就像回到了家。

You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be.

在掌握一种新的生活方式之前,你必须学会一种新的思维方式。

In my thirties, I felt I had hold of one of the reins some of the time.

在我三十多岁的时候,有一段时间我觉得自己掌握了其中的一根缰绳。

We live not in the world outside, but in a world inside ourselves.

我们不是生活在外面的世界里,而是生活在自己内心的世界里。

To hold a pen is to be at war.

握笔就是打仗。