There are three musts that hold us back: I must do well. You must treat me well. And the world must be easy.

  • -- Albert Ellis 艾伯特·埃利斯

有三件事拖了我们的后腿:我必须做好。你必须好好待我。世界必须变得简单。

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To punish a man because we infer from the nature of some doctrine which he holds, or from the conduct of other persons who hold the same doctrines with him, that he will commit a crime, is persecution, and is, in every case, foolish and wicked.

因为我们从一个人所持的某种学说的性质,或者从其他与他持有同样学说的人的行为中,推断出他将会犯罪,而惩罚他,这就是迫害,在任何情况下,都是愚蠢和邪恶的。

Let love flow so that it cleanses the world. Then man can live in peace, instead of the state of turmoil he has created through his past ways of life, with all those material interests and earthly ambitions.

让爱流动,让爱净化世界。这样,人类就可以生活在和平中,而不是生活在他过去的生活方式所造成的混乱状态中,拥有所有的物质利益和世俗的野心。

Maintaining order in the classrooms has never been easy and it is evident that the school setting requires some easing of the restrictions to which searches by public authorities are ordinarily subject.

维持教室的秩序从来就不是一件容易的事,很明显,学校的环境需要放松一些限制,而这些限制通常是由公共当局进行搜查的。

To resist the frigidity of old age, one must combine the body, the mind, and the heart. And to keep these in parallel vigor one must exercise, study, and love.

要抵抗老年的寒冷,就必须把身体、思想和心灵结合起来。为了保持这些活力,我们必须锻炼、学习和热爱。

All of us have moments in our childhood where we come alive for the first time. And we go back to those moments and think, This is when I became myself.

我们每个人在童年都有第一次活过来的时刻。我们回想那些时刻,然后想,这就是我成为我自己的时刻。

True strength is being able to hold it together when no one would blame you for completely falling apart.

真正的力量是当没有人会因为你彻底崩溃而责备你的时候,你能坚持住。

Looking back, I think I was always musical. My dad was very musical, and I think my mom was musical.

现在回想起来,我觉得我一直都很有音乐天赋。我爸爸很有音乐天赋,我想我妈妈也很有音乐天赋。

Some people never go crazy, what truly horrible lives they must lead.

有些人永远不会发疯,他们必须过着多么可怕的生活。

The rest of the world wants our cash; we like plastic.

世界其他国家想要我们的钱;我们喜欢塑料。

It is easy to react if everything is going great.

如果一切顺利,人们很容易做出反应。