The longer we listen to one another - with real attention - the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.

  • -- Barbara Deming 芭芭拉·戴明

我们彼此倾听的时间越长——真正用心倾听——我们在生活中就会发现越多的共性。也就是说,如果我们谨慎地与他人交流生活故事,而不仅仅是观点。

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Love is more than just a feeling: it's a process requiring continual attention. Loving well takes laughter, loyalty, and wanting more to be able to say, "I understand" than to hear, "You're right."

爱不仅仅是一种感觉:它是一个需要持续关注的过程。良好的爱需要笑声、忠诚,需要更多的是能够说“我理解”,而不是听到“你是对的”。

In the power of fixing the attention lies the most precious of the intellectual habits.

集中注意力的力量在于最宝贵的智力习惯。