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People could rationally decide that prolonged relationships take up too much time and effort and that they'd much rather do other kinds of things. But most people are afraid of rejection.

  • -- Albert Ellis 艾伯特·埃利斯

人们可以理性地认为，长期的恋爱关系占用了太多的时间和精力，他们宁愿做其他事情。但是大多数人害怕被拒绝。

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I don't want to impose rules on people, but you have only a short window, and you're sorely mistaken if you think you can put off having a family. It's very hard to find a good man, and it's never a 'good time' to have a baby if you have a career.

我不想把规矩强加于人，但你的期限很短，如果你认为可以推迟成家，那你就大错特错了。很难找到一个好男人，如果你有事业的话，现在不是生孩子的“好时机”。

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Relationships are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists because it is in relationship to everything else. Nothing exists in isolation. We have to stop pretending we are individuals that can go it alone.

人际关系就是一切。 宇宙中的一切之所以存在，只是因为它是存在的 和其他一切的关系。没有任何事物是孤立存在的。 我们必须停止假装我们是可以独立完成任务的个体。

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Every little thing that people know about you as a person impedes your ability to achieve that kind of terrific suspension of disbelief that happens when an audience goes with an actor and character he's playing.

人们对你所知的每一件小事都会阻碍你的能力，让你无法像观众对演员和他所扮演的角色那样，完全不相信他。

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The biggest lesson that I've learned is that fashion is this tightrope where you have to be consistent but inconsistent. You need the connective thread but at the same time you need a sense of surprise.

我学到的最大的教训是，时尚就像走钢丝，你必须始终如一，但又前后矛盾。你需要连接的线索，但同时你需要一种惊喜的感觉。

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Nobody told me how hard it was going to be to get published. I wrote four novels that nobody wanted, sent them out all over, collected hundreds and hundreds of rejection slips.

没有人告诉我出版有多难。我写了四本没人要的小说，到处散发，收集了成百上千的退稿单。

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Once you allow yourself to identify with the people in a story, then you might begin to see yourself in that story even if on the surface it's far removed from your situation.

一旦你允许自己认同故事中的人物，那么你可能会开始在故事中看到自己，即使表面上它与你的处境相去甚远。

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It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important.

在人际关系和所有任务中，我们似乎必须只专注于最重要的事情。

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Rejection isn't a sign of failure. Rejection is a reminder that there's always room for improvement.

被拒绝并不意味着失败。拒绝是一个提醒，总是有改进的空间。

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I wish I was dating one of the ladies in 'Bollywood Hero.' They're gorgeous. Any of them.

我希望我在和宝莱坞英雄中的一位女士约会。“他们华丽。其中任何一个。

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Love is such a force onto itself that it doesn't wreck havoc when it beats for others.

爱是一种如此强大的力量，当它为别人而战时，它不会造成破坏。

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