Most fathers don't see the war within the daughter, her struggles with conflicting images of the idealized and flawed father, her temptation both to retreat to Daddy's lap and protection and to push out of his embrace to that of beau and the world beyond home.

大多数父亲都看不到女儿内心的斗争，看不到她与理想化的、有缺陷的父亲形象之间的冲突，看不到她既想退到父亲的怀抱中寻求保护，又想从父亲的怀抱中挣脱出来，拥抱博，拥抱外面的世界。