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Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.

  • -- Deborah Tannen 德博拉·坦嫩

沟通是一种持续的平衡行为，在亲密和独立的需求之间平衡。为了在这个世界上生存，我们必须与他人合作，但是为了作为我们自己而生存，而不仅仅是作为一个齿轮上的齿轮，我们必须独自行动。

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A drunkard in the gutter is just where he ought to be, according to the fitness and tendency of things. Nature has set upon him the process of decline and dissolution by which she removes things which have survived their usefulness.

一个酒鬼在阴沟里正是他应该呆的地方，这是根据事情的发展趋势而定的。大自然给他安排了一个衰微和解体的过程，通过这个过程，她除去了那些无用的东西。

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I have come into this world to see this: the sword drop from men's hands even at the height of their arc of rage because we have finally realized there is just one flesh we can wound.

我到世上来，是要看这事。 剑从人们手中落下 即使在高峰时期 的弧 愤怒 因为我们终于意识到 只有一个肉体 我们可以伤口。

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But picketing - picketing for or against something, and handing out literature - these are conspicuously formal actions. They have to be understood as indirect communication.

但是纠察——支持或反对某件事的纠察，以及分发文献——这些都是明显的正式行为。它们必须被理解为间接的交流。

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I'm sure Putnam is right that there's been a decline in certain kinds of organizations like bowling leagues. But people participate in communities in other ways.

我相信普特南是对的，像保龄球联盟这样的组织在减少。但是人们以其他方式参与社区。

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Nothing defines the quality of life in a community more clearly than people who regard themselves, or whom the consensus chooses to regard, as mentally unwell.

没有什么比那些认为自己或共识选择认为自己精神不健康的人更清楚地定义了社区的生活质量。

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I have eyes like a bullfrog, a neck like an ostrich and long, limp hair. You just have to be good to survive with that equipment.

我的眼睛像牛蛙，脖子像鸵鸟，头发又长又软。有了这些设备，你就能很好地生存。

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People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone.

人之所以为人，是必须充满精力、自我更新、自我恢复、自我反省、自我救赎;永远不要抛弃任何人。

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I suppose leadership at one time meant muscles; but today it means getting along with people.

我认为，领导力一度意味着肌肉;但是今天它意味着与人相处。

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Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting.

自爱，我的臣子，与其说是一种罪恶，不如说是一种疏忽。

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Communication is everyone's panacea for everything.

沟通是每个人的万能药。

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