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Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.

  • -- Deborah Tannen 德博拉·坦嫩

沟通是一种持续的平衡行为，在亲密和独立的需求之间平衡。为了在这个世界上生存，我们必须与他人合作，但是为了作为我们自己而生存，而不仅仅是作为一个齿轮上的齿轮，我们必须独自行动。

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She’d survived the Drowned Cities because she wasn’t anything like Mouse. When the bullets started flying and warlords started making examples of peacekeeper collaborators, Mahlia had kept her head down, instead of standing up like Mouse. She’d looked out for herself, first. And because of that, she’d survived.

她在被淹没的城市里活了下来，因为她一点也不像老鼠。当子弹开始飞起，军阀们开始为维和部队的合作者们树立榜样时，马莉亚一直保持着低着头的姿态，而不是像老鼠一样站着。她首先要照顾好自己。正因为如此，她活了下来。

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I mean in the South African case, many of those who were part of death squads would have been respectable members of their white community, people who went to church on Sunday, every Sunday.

我的意思是，在南非的例子中，很多人都是行刑队的成员，他们都是白人社区中受人尊敬的成员，他们每个星期天都去教堂做礼拜。

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The really valuable thing in the pageant of human life seems to me not the State but the creative, sentient individual, the personality; it alone creates the noble and the sublime. . .

在我看来，在人生的绚丽多姿中，真正有价值的不是国家，而是有创造力、有知觉的个体、有个性的人;它独自创造了崇高和崇高……

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I choose work that is hard to pull off. And it's scary how things can go wrong. But if there's no risk involved, it's not challenging. A good idea will survive any process.

我选择了一份很难完成的工作。事情会变得很糟糕。但如果没有风险，就没有挑战性。好主意经得起任何过程的考验。

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Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self. And only through working on the self can we begin to enhance our connectedness to others.

只有通过与他人的联系，我们才能真正了解并提升自我。只有通过自我的努力，我们才能开始增强与他人的联系。

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That's why I do this music business thing, it's communication with people without having the extreme inconvenience of actually phoning anybody up.

这就是我做音乐生意的原因，这是一种与人沟通的方式，而不需要给任何人打电话带来极大的不便。

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Mental communication without verbalization... all space is made up of waves and we are constantly sending and receiving messages from our brain.

没有语言表达的精神交流……所有的空间都是由波组成的，我们不断地从大脑中发送和接收信息。

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Nor knowest thou what argument Thy life to thy neighbor's creed has lent. All are needed by each one; Nothing is fair or good alone.

你也不知道什么理由 你的生命为你邻居的信仰提供了帮助。 每个人都需要一切; 没有什么是公平的，也没有什么是好的。

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We know from science that nothing in the universe exists as an isolated or independent entity.

我们从科学上知道，宇宙中没有任何东西是作为一个孤立的或独立的实体存在的。

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All human beings are interconnected, one with all other elements in creation.

所有的人都是相互联系的，在创造中与所有其他元素都是一体的。

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