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It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.

  • -- Sydney J. Harris 悉尼J.哈里斯

令人惊讶的是，很多人在一生中都没有意识到他们对别人的感觉很大程度上是由他们对自己的感觉决定的。

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There is an endless net of threads throughout the universe... At every crossing of the threads there is an individual. And every individual is a crystal bead. And every crystal bead reflects Not only the light from every other crystal in the net But also every other reflection Throughout the entire universe.

宇宙中有无数的丝线…… 每条线的交叉处都有一个独立的点。 每个人都是一颗水晶珠。 每颗水晶珠都会反射 不仅是网中其他晶体发出的光 还有其他的反射 整个宇宙。

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Suffering and joy teach us, if we allow them, how to make the leap of empathy, which transports us into the soul and heart of another person. ln those transparent moments we know other people's joys and sorrows, and we care about their concerns as if they were our own.

痛苦和快乐教会我们，如果我们允许它们，如何跨越同理心，让我们进入另一个人的灵魂和心灵。在那些透明的时刻，我们知道别人的喜怒哀乐，我们关心他们的关心，就像他们是我们自己的一样。

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One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. The bamboozle has captured us. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.

历史上最惨痛的教训之一是:如果我们被愚弄的时间足够长，我们往往会拒绝任何有关这种欺骗的证据。竹竿把我们捉住了。一旦你让一个骗子控制了你，你几乎永远不会再得到它。

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There is no squabbling so violent as that between people who accepted an idea yesterday and those who will accept the same idea tomorrow.

昨天接受一个观点的人和明天接受同样观点的人之间的争吵是最激烈的。

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When we understand the needs that motivate our own and other's behavior, we have no enemies.

当我们理解了激励自己和他人行为的需求时，我们就没有敌人了。

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We must make the best of those ills which cannot be avoided.

我们必须充分利用那些无法避免的弊病。

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