A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
自尊
Self-Esteem
The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are, and not who people think you are.
唯一能让你快乐的是对自己感到快乐，而不是别人认为你是谁。
It takes nearly as much ability to know how to profit by good advice as to know how to act for one's self.
知道如何从好的建议中获益，与知道如何为自己而行动，同样需要能力。
Giving people self-confidence is by far the most important thing that I can do. Because then they will act.
到目前为止，给人们自信是我能做的最重要的事情。因为他们会采取行动。
Self-esteem comes from being able to define the world in your own terms and refusing to abide by the judgments of others.
自尊来自于能够以自己的方式定义世界，拒绝接受他人的判断。
One should never criticize his own work except in a fresh and hopeful mood. The self-criticism of a tired mind is suicide.
一个人永远不应该批评自己的工作，除非在一个新的和有希望的心情。一个疲倦的头脑的自我批评是自杀。
I am afraid to show you who I really am, because if I show you who I really am, you might not like it--and that's all I got.
我害怕向你展示真实的我，因为如果我向你展示真实的我，你可能不喜欢——这就是我所得到的一切。
Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
在你诊断自己患有抑郁症或自卑之前，首先要确定你不是被一群混蛋包围着。
Outstanding leaders go out of their way to boost the self-esteem of their personnel. If people believe in themselves, it's amazing what they can accomplish.
优秀的领导者会不遗余力地提升员工的自尊。如果人们相信自己，他们所能取得的成就是惊人的。
There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity.
有压倒性的证据表明，一个人的自尊水平越高，他就越有可能尊重、善良和慷慨地对待他人。
Go out in the world and work like money doesn't matter, Sing as if no one is listening, Love as if you have never been hurt, and Dance as if no one is watching.
出去闯世界吧，像个没钱的人一样工作;唱歌吧，就像没人在听一样;去爱吧，就像从没受过伤害一样;去跳舞吧，就像没人在看一样。
It is a grand mistake to think of being great without goodness and I pronounce it as certain that there was never a truly great man that was not at the same time truly virtuous.
认为自己伟大而无良是大错特错的，我可以肯定地说，没有一个真正伟大的人同时不具有真正的美德。
Most urgently, women's identity must be premised upon our "beauty" so that we will remain vulnerable to outside approval, carrying the vital sensitive organ of self-esteem exposed to the air.
最紧迫的是，女性的身份必须以我们的“美丽”为前提，这样我们才会对外界的认可保持脆弱，而自尊这一至关重要的敏感器官暴露在空气中。
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沿着这个主题，再读几句。
It seems to be a common denominator with a lot of comics, this low self-esteem thing.
这似乎是很多漫画的共同特点，这种低自尊的事情。
I wish my waist was as small as my self-esteem.
我希望我的腰和我的自尊一样小。
The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.
最可怕的事情是完全接受自己。
I was doing a children's book on self-esteem, and I really felt like I wanted to shed the shame I'd been feeling - and maybe make it easier for women my age who had probably felt bad about themselves.
我当时正在写一本关于自尊的儿童读物，我真的觉得我想要摆脱我一直以来的羞耻感，也许这样对我这个年纪的女性来说会更容易一些，因为她们可能对自己感到很不好。
I emphasize self-esteem, self-confidence, and dignity, not as an ideal, but as a real test of community organization. Without leadership development, community organizations do not have staying power.
我强调自尊、自信和尊严，不是作为一种理想，而是作为对社区组织的真正考验。没有领导力的发展，社区组织就没有后劲。
I think Black people need to take self-esteem seriously.
我认为黑人需要认真对待自尊。