A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
听
Listening
To listen well is as powerful a means of influence as to talk well and is as essential to all true conversation.
良好的倾听和良好的交谈一样,都是一种强大的影响手段,对所有真正的交谈都是必不可少的。
Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening.
家庭内部的任何问题,无论大小,似乎总是始于糟糕的沟通。有人不听。
This listening is that which will facilitate the patient's telling of his tale, the telling that can set him free.
这种倾听有助于病人讲述他的故事,这种讲述能让他获得自由。
I listened, motionless and still; And, as I mounted up the hill, The music in my heart I bore, Long after it was heard no more.
我静静地听着,一动不动。当我爬上山时,那音乐在我心中久久回荡,尽管早已听不见了。
Indeed -- judicious, consistent parenting is a dream of mine. No judgments, learning space and listening carefully are my goals.
事实上,明智、持续的养育孩子是我的一个梦想。我的目标是不做判断、学习空间和认真倾听。
Listening is as important as talking. If you're a good listener, people often compliment you for being a good conversationalist.
听和说一样重要。如果你善于倾听,人们通常会称赞你善于交谈。
I listened a little to punk when I was younger, but it was straight edge punk. It was nothing like what is going on now, like poppy punk.
我年轻的时候听过一点朋克音乐,但都是直边朋克。不像现在发生的,不像罂粟花朋克。
Weather means more when you have a garden. There's nothing like listening to a shower and thinking how it is soaking in around your green beans.
当你有一个花园时,天气意味着更多。没有什么比听着淋浴,想着它是如何浸泡在你的绿豆周围。
I love loud music. I listen loud, and that's part of how I've learned how to do this. Record softly and play back loud and a whole other thing happens.
我喜欢吵闹的音乐。我大声听,这也是我学习如何做到这一点的一部分。轻柔地录音,大声回放,就会发生另一件事。
One of the best ways of keeping your temper in an argument, as most of us know only too well, is not to listen to anything the other person has to say.
我们大多数人都非常清楚,在争论中保持冷静的最好方法之一就是不要听对方说什么。
Right now I'm listening to a lot of different things but I listen to a lot of classical music. Eventually I would like to compose and perform classical.
现在我听很多不同的东西,但是我听很多古典音乐。最后我想作曲和表演古典音乐。
Then as the years went on and my listening became more deliberate, I would climb up on an arm of our big sofa to get my ear closer to the wireless speaker.
然后,随着时间的推移,我的听力变得越来越认真,我就会爬到我们大沙发的扶手上,让我的耳朵更靠近无线扬声器。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
My voice right now, hey, listen. I don't know how long it's going to last.
我现在的声音,嘿,听着。我不知道会持续多久。
One of the best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.
说服别人最好的方法之一就是用耳朵去听。
I like driving around town and listening to new records.
我喜欢开车在城里兜风,听新唱片。
I try to forget about the expectation that's out there and the audience listening for the next thing so that I'm not trying to please them. I've spent a huge amount of time not communicating with those folks and denying that they exist.
我试着忘记外面的期望和听众对下一件事的期待,这样我就不会试图取悦他们。我花了大量时间不与这些人交流,否认他们的存在。
The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
与他人沟通最基本、最有力的方式就是倾听。只是听。也许我们给予彼此的最重要的东西就是我们的关注…爱的沉默往往比最善意的话语更能治愈伤痛,更能沟通。
My husband works in the music industry and he's always the first to know about great new bands, so I end up seeming really with it because I'll be listening to an up-and-coming band before everyone else hears about it.
我的丈夫在音乐行业工作,他总是第一个知道伟大的新乐队,所以我最终看起来真的很喜欢它,因为我会在别人听到一个很有前途的乐队之前听他们的歌。