A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
疼痛
Pain
Painful as it may be, a significant emotional event can be the catalyst for choosing a direction that serves us - and those around us - more effectively. Look for the learning.
尽管这可能是痛苦的，一个重要的情感事件可以成为选择一个方向的催化剂，更有效地服务于我们和我们周围的人。寻找学习机会。
To know the pains of power, we must go to those who have it; to know its pleasures, we must go to those who are seeking it. The pains of power are real; its pleasures imaginary.
欲知权力带来的痛苦，去问那些当权者;要想知道它的乐趣，我们必须去找那些追求快乐的人。权力带来的痛苦是真实的;它的乐趣虚构的。
One of the things that has always motivated me to write is the desire to get it out and look at it in an objective way, so that it doesn't cause me any serious pain by staying inside.
有一件事一直激励着我写作，那就是想把它拿出来，客观地看待它，这样它就不会因为呆在家里而给我带来任何严重的痛苦。
The great artist is the man who most obviously succeeds in turning his pains to advantage, in letting suffering deepens his understanding and sensibility, in growing through his pains.
伟大的艺术家最明显地成功地把痛苦转化为优势，让痛苦加深他的理解和情感，在痛苦中成长。
Golf isn't first on my list anymore. There are a lot of things ahead of golf and I have to go ahead and do those things so I can play golf. I'm tired of hurting. Tired of fighting pain.
高尔夫不再是我的首选。在打高尔夫球之前还有很多事情要做，我必须要做这些事情，这样我才能打高尔夫球。我受够了伤害。厌倦了与痛苦作斗争。
Like everybody, I've had a lot of pain in my life and I'm a work in progress. You must have a true desire to see the world from a different point of view, and that comes with growing up.
像所有人一样，我的生活中有很多痛苦，我的工作还在进行中。你必须有一个真正的愿望，从一个不同的角度看世界，这是伴随着成长而来的。
I have been able to tap into all the negative things that can happen to me throughout my life by numbing myself to the pain so to speak and kind of being able to vent it through my music.
我能够通过麻木自己的痛苦来挖掘我一生中可能发生的所有负面的事情，可以说，我能够通过我的音乐来发泄。
He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, and in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God.
学无止境。甚至在我们睡觉的时候，不能忘记的痛苦一滴一滴地落在我们的心上，在我们绝望的时候，违背我们的意愿，智慧从神可怕的恩典中降临到我们身上。
I cry a lot. My emotions are very close to my surface. I don't want to hold anything in so it festers and turns into pus - a pustule of emotion that explodes into a festering cesspool of depression.
我经常哭。我的情绪非常接近我的表面。我不想把任何东西憋在心里，这样它就会溃烂，变成脓包——一种情感的脓包，爆发成溃烂的抑郁症粪坑。
Without pain, there would be no suffering, without suffering we would never learn from over mistakes. To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows, without it, there is no way of life.
没有痛苦，就不会有痛苦;没有痛苦，我们就不会从错误中吸取教训。为了使它正确，痛苦和折磨是所有窗户的钥匙，没有它，就没有生活的方式。
Like I can't cry for myself so I will let this song take all of the things inside I can't let anyone else see and offer it up, as if the sound were some kind of god, and my pain is some kind of sacrifice.
就像我不能为自己哭泣，所以我会让这首歌带走我内心所有的东西，我不能让任何人看到，并把它奉献出来，就像这声音是某种上帝，而我的痛苦是某种牺牲。
Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you cannot bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond the pain.
我们许多人一生都在逃避感觉，错误地认为你无法承受痛苦。但你已经承受了痛苦。你所没有做的就是感觉到你已经超越了痛苦。
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You can't quantify human pain the way you can measure out sugar. Death comes one individual at a time.
你无法用测量糖的方法来量化人类的疼痛。死亡一次只降临一个人。
My definition of success is to live your life in a way that causes you to feel a ton of pleasure and very little pain - and because of your lifestyle, have the people around you feel a lot more pleasure than they do pain.
我对成功的定义是，以一种能让你感受到大量快乐而很少痛苦的方式生活——由于你的生活方式，让你身边的人感受到的快乐比他们感受到的痛苦多得多。
The struggle of my life created empathy - I could relate to pain, being abandoned, having people not love me.
我生命中的挣扎创造了同理心——我能体会到痛苦、被抛弃、没有人爱我。
Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.
学习是一种天赋。即使痛苦是你的老师。
The truth is that we can learn to condition our minds, bodies, and emotions to link pain or pleasure to whatever we choose. By changing what we link pain and pleasure to, we will instantly change our behaviors.
事实是，我们可以学会调整我们的思想、身体和情感，把痛苦或快乐与我们所选择的联系起来。通过改变我们把痛苦和快乐联系在一起的东西，我们会立即改变我们的行为。
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.
当我们诚实地问自己生命中谁对我们最重要时，我们常常发现，是那些人，他们没有给出建议、解决方案或治愈方法，而是选择与我们分享痛苦，用温暖而温柔的手触摸我们的伤口。