A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
And all his sons and all his daughters rose up to comfort him; but he refused to be comforted; and he said, For I will go down into the grave unto my son mourning. Thus his father wept for him.
他的儿女都起来安慰他。但他不肯受安慰;他说，我要悲哀着下到阴间，到我儿子那里。他父亲就为他哀哭。
I looked back at some of my earlier published stories with genuine horror and remorse. I got thinking, How many extant copies might there be, who owns them, and do they keep their doors locked?
我带着真实的恐惧和悔恨回顾我早期发表的一些故事。我开始思考，现存的副本可能有多少，谁拥有它们，它们的门锁上了吗?
Only when human sorrows are turned into a toy with glaring colors will baby people become interested - for a while at least. The people are a very fickle baby that must have new toys every day.
只有当人类的悲伤变成一个色彩鲜艳的玩具时，婴儿才会感兴趣——至少在一段时间内。人们是一个非常善变的婴儿，每天都必须有新玩具。
I was married to someone who wanted me to change. Become more adult, more responsible. I began not to like myself, not like what I do. I lost my identity. Everything began collapsing around me.
我嫁给了一个想让我改变的人。变得更成熟，更有责任感。我开始不喜欢自己，不喜欢我所做的。我失去了我的身份。我周围的一切开始崩溃。
It might have been easier to retire, to say my knee couldn't handle it and let that be that. At the same time, the prospect of not being able to compete in gymnastics anymore was heartbreaking.
退休的时候说我的膝盖承受不了，就这样吧。与此同时，再也不能参加体操比赛的前景令人心碎。
Like one, that on a lonesome road Doth walk in fear and dread, And having once turned round walks on, And turns no more his head; Because he knows, a frightful fiend Doth close behind him tread.
就像一个人，在孤独的路上行走，心中充满恐惧和恐惧。他曾转过身来，就继续往前走，不再回头;因为他知道，一个可怕的恶魔在他的后面紧追不舍。
Tragedy is thus a representation of an action that is worth serious attention, complete in itself and of some amplitude...by means of pity and fear bringing about the purgation of such emotions.
因此，悲剧是一种值得认真注意的行为的表现，其本身是完整的，而且有一定的幅度……通过怜悯和恐惧来净化这些情感。
The saddest thing is that when I sat down to rehearse for the Pixies, I couldn't believe that I had given up something that I loved. Now I hold the drum at night and I want to go to bed with it.
最悲哀的是，当我坐下来为小妖精们排练时，我不敢相信我已经放弃了我喜欢的东西。现在我晚上拿着鼓睡觉。
The shock of any trauma, I think changes your life. It's more acute in the beginning and after a little time you settle back to what you were. However it leaves an indelible mark on your psyche.
任何创伤的打击，我想都会改变你的生活。刚开始的时候会更严重，过一段时间你就会恢复到原来的状态。然而，它在你的心灵留下了不可磨灭的印记。
I have lived through many major hurricanes during my lifetime: Camille, Frederic, and Ivan, to name just a very few. However, never have I seen destruction, panic, and fear on this massive scale.
在我的一生中，我经历过许多大飓风:卡米尔、弗雷德里克和伊凡，仅举几个例子。然而，我从未见过如此大规模的破坏、恐慌和恐惧。
What is the natural reaction when told you have a hopeless mental illness? That diagnosis does you in; that, and the humiliation of being there. I mean, the indignity you're subjected to. My God.
当被告知你患有无望的精神疾病时，你的自然反应是什么?这个诊断让你陷入;还有在那里的耻辱。我是说，你所遭受的侮辱。我的上帝。
He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, and in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God.
学无止境。甚至在我们睡觉的时候，不能忘记的痛苦一滴一滴地落在我们的心上，在我们绝望的时候，违背我们的意愿，智慧从神可怕的恩典中降临到我们身上。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
It is not about forcing happiness. It is about not letting sadness win.
这不是强迫幸福。而是不要让悲伤获胜。
Do not be afraid that joy will make the pain worse; it is needed like the air we breathe.
不要害怕快乐会使痛苦加剧;它就像我们呼吸的空气一样是需要的。
There's a false perception that women in Africa somehow don't love their babies they way we do, don't grieve their loss the way we would. That is simply not true.
有一种错误的观念认为非洲的妇女不像我们一样爱她们的孩子，不像我们一样为失去孩子而悲伤。但事实并非如此。
In your emotions: exercise Joy over sadness.
在你的情绪中:用快乐战胜悲伤。
Memories, even hard memories, grew soft like peaches as they grow older.
回忆，即使是艰难的回忆，随着年龄的增长也会变得像桃子一样柔软。
There is a wisdom that is woe; but there is a woe that is madness.
有一种智慧叫悲哀;但有一种悲哀是疯狂的。