A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Of course, I would be depressed sometimes, and my Mom would be worried about me because I would just sleep to escape. Cause I was so scared of being a musician or artist, or whatever you want to call it.
当然,我有时会很沮丧,我妈妈会担心我,因为我会睡觉来逃避。因为我很害怕成为一名音乐家或艺术家,或者随便你怎么称呼它。
Maybe it's just my own chronic morbidity and melancholia, but I really do think about it a great deal and quite often in the small hours of the night when, it is said, the greatest numbers of people die.
也许这只是我自己的慢性疾病和忧郁症,但我确实对它思考了很多,而且常常是在深夜的几个小时里,也就是据说死亡人数最多的时候。
When I looked into the eyes of the people who knew Laci best, I saw something I didn't want to see: a group of people who desperately loved Laci, and who were beginning to suspect she wasn't coming home.
当我看着那些最了解莱西的人的眼睛时,我看到了一些我不想看到的东西:一群极度热爱莱西的人,他们开始怀疑她不会回家。
This miry slough, is such a place as cannot be mended: It is the descent whither the scum and filth that attends conviction for sin doth continually run, and therefore is it called the Slough of Despond.
这泥泞的泥沼,是一个无法修补的地方。这泥沼就是那因犯罪而定罪的渣滓不断往下跑的地方,因此它被称为绝望的泥沼。
Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it. (attributed)
不要被世界的巨大悲痛所吓倒。做公正,现在。爱怜悯,现在。谦卑地走,现在。你没有义务完成这项工作,但你也没有自由放弃它。(认为)
The rejection that we all take and the sadness and the aggravation and the loss of jobs and all of the things that we live through in our lives, without a sense of humor, I don't know how people make it.
我们都经历过被拒绝、悲伤、恼怒、失业,以及我们生活中所经历的一切,如果没有幽默感,我不知道人们是怎么做到的。
The person who grieves suffers his passion to grow upon him; he indulges it, he loves it; but this never happens in the case of actual pain, which no man ever willingly endured for any considerable time.
悲伤的人忍受着他的激情在他身上生长;他纵容它,他爱它;但是,真正的痛苦从来没有发生过,没有人愿意忍受相当长的时间。
I'll get depressed out on the road simply because I'm not being the mama that's cooking supper every night, or that's fixing my husband's plate and my baby's plate. You miss those things, and I miss them.
我在路上会感到沮丧,因为我不是每天晚上做晚饭的妈妈,也不是给丈夫和孩子做饭的妈妈。你想念那些东西,我也想念它们。
Buddha's doctrine: Man suffers because of his craving to possess and keep forever things which are essentially impermanent... this frustration of the desire to possess is the immediate cause of suffering.
佛陀的教义:人之所以受苦,是因为他渴望拥有和永远拥有本质上是无常的东西……这种对占有欲望的失望是痛苦的直接原因。
I went to work when I was a young fellow and I loved what I did. And I just kept working. And when I decided that maybe the time had come for me to quit, I got depressed. What could I do if I didn't work?
我年轻的时候就去工作了,我热爱我所做的一切。我继续工作。当我决定也许是时候辞职时,我感到很沮丧。如果我不工作,我能做什么?
Horror and doubt distract His troubled thoughts, and from the bottom stir The hell within him, for within him hell He brings, and round about him, nor from hell One step no more than from himself can fly.
恐惧和怀疑分散了他纷乱的思绪,并从心底搅动着他内心的地狱,因为在他的内心,他带着地狱,绕着他转,从地狱走一步,就像他自己不能飞一样。
Last time I spoke to my mom she called me from a pay phone, and we didn't have the best talk. Ever since my stepdad passed away three years ago, she has been very depressed and hasn't been herself at all.
上次我和妈妈说话时,她用公用电话打给我,我们聊得不是很愉快。自从我继父三年前去世后,她一直很沮丧,完全不像她自己。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
Pain fades, but the lessons that you learn, always stay right there with you.
痛苦会消失,但你学到的教训,永远与你同在。
Memories, even hard memories, grew soft like peaches as they grow older.
回忆,即使是艰难的回忆,随着年龄的增长也会变得像桃子一样柔软。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中,我们才能看到爱的深处。
Endure and persist; this pain will turn to good by and by.
忍受和坚持;这种痛苦不久就会好转的。
In this world, full often, our joys are only the tender shadows which our sorrows cast.
在这个世界上,我们的欢乐往往只是我们的悲伤投下的柔和的影子。
Broken heart will turn into a stronger one within hope.
破碎的心会在希望中变得更坚强。