A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Antidepressants are very good, but it's a clinical cosh, really. Sometimes you have to be knocked out, just to stop; when you're in that state all you want to do is just sleep, and rest your body and your brain.
抗抑郁药很好，但它是一种临床用药，真的。有时候你必须被击倒，才能停下来;当你处于这种状态时，你想做的就是睡觉，休息你的身体和大脑。
Of course, I also hear from critics who detest what I do, and while sometimes I feel rather proud of having made various the loathsome people or groups angry, at other times I wonder why I put up with such grief.
当然，我也听到过一些评论家对我的所作所为深恶痛绝，虽然有时我为让各种令人讨厌的人或群体感到愤怒而感到相当自豪，但有时我也不明白自己为什么要忍受这种悲伤。
I felt ashamed for what I had done. I don't have any excuses. I did what I did. I take full responsibility for myself and my actions. I wouldn't pawn this off on anybody. I'm sorry it happened. And I hurt people.
我为我所做的事感到羞愧。我没有任何借口。我做了我该做的。我对自己和自己的行为负全部责任。我不会把这件事推给任何人。我很抱歉发生了这样的事。我伤害别人。
I hadn't accepted he was seriously ill. The idea that someone so close to you couldn't wake up was utterly incomprehensible. Then the doctor came in... Maurice had no brain left. There wasn't any activity at all.
我不承认他病得很重。和你如此亲密的人无法醒来，这种想法是完全无法理解的。然后医生进来了……莫瑞斯已经没有脑子了。没有任何活动。
I didn't know my mother had it. I think a lot of women don't know their mothers had it; that's the sad thing about depression. You know, you don't function anymore. You shut down. You feel like you are in a void.
我不知道我妈妈有。我想很多女性都不知道她们的母亲有这种病;这就是抑郁症的悲哀之处。你知道，你不再发挥作用了。你关闭。你觉得自己在一个空虚的地方。
And he said, My son shall not go down with you; for his brother is dead, and he is left alone: if mischief befall him by the way in the which ye go, then shall ye bring down my gray hairs with sorrow to the grave.
他说，我的儿子不可和你同下去。因为他哥哥死了，只剩下他一个人。你们所行的路上，若有祸患临到他，那便是你们使我白发苍苍，悲悲惨惨地下阴间去了。
In our anguish we struggle To elude Him, to lie to Him, yet His love observes His appalling promise;His predilection As we wander and weep is with us to the end, Minding our meanings, our least matter dear to Him.
在我们的痛苦中，我们挣扎着逃避他，向他撒谎，然而他的爱遵守着他骇人的诺言;当我们徘徊哭泣时，他的偏爱与我们同在，直到生命的尽头，我们在意我们的意思，我们对他最无关紧要的事。
Grief is like cancer. It ebbs and flows within you. Then, it changes and transforms you. Forever. Grief. Cancer. Both force you to face your worst fear—death. Grief and cancer. Both undermine your optimism of life.
悲伤就像癌症。它在你体内起起落落。然后，它会改变你，改变你。直到永远。悲伤。癌症。两者都迫使你面对最可怕的恐惧——死亡。悲伤和癌症。两者都会破坏你对生活的乐观。
It was quite a ride and very conflicting for me, too - to be nominated for an Oscar, to be straight and healthy, and to be getting all these accolades while these people around me were suffering and dying from AIDS.
对我来说，这是一段很艰难的旅程，也很矛盾——获得奥斯卡提名，保持正直和健康，获得所有这些荣誉，而我周围的人却在遭受艾滋病的折磨，甚至死于艾滋病。
There was a time in the marriage when I could no longer look at myself in a mirror, couldn't feel I was a nice person. A bad relationship can do that, can make you doubt everything good you ever felt about yourself.
在婚姻中有一段时间，我不能再照镜子，感觉自己不是一个好人。一段糟糕的关系会让你怀疑自己的一切。
What lips my lips have kissed, and where, and why, I have forgotten, and what arms have lain Under my head till morning; but the rain Is full of ghosts tonight, that tap and sigh Upon the glass and listen for reply.
我的嘴唇吻过什么嘴唇，在什么地方，为什么，我都忘记了，在我的头下躺着什么胳膊，直到早晨;但今夜的雨却充满了鬼魅，那轻叩和叹息在玻璃上，静听回音。
The fact that we are I don't know how many millions of people, yet communication, complete communication, is completely impossible between two of those people, is to me one of the biggest tragic themes in the world.
我们是我不知道有多少人，但是沟通，完全的沟通，在这两个人之间是完全不可能的，这对我来说是世界上最大的悲剧主题之一。
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It is better to be hungry in joy, than to be filled in sorrow.
宁可在喜乐中饥饿，也不愿在忧愁中饱足。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。
It is not about forcing happiness. It is about not letting sadness win.
这不是强迫幸福。而是不要让悲伤获胜。
In your emotions: exercise Joy over sadness.
在你的情绪中:用快乐战胜悲伤。
The cure for sorrow is to learn something.
治愈悲伤的方法是学习一些东西。
He who can conceal his joys, is greater than he who can hide his griefs.
能隐藏快乐的人，比能隐藏悲伤的人更伟大。