A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
It's a fact that people who are in a weakened position, whether physically or mentally, have this perception of the outer world as threatening. Everything that is unexpected or unknown is seen as a potential danger.
事实是，处于弱势地位的人，无论是生理上还是心理上，都认为外部世界具有威胁性。任何意外或未知的事情都被视为潜在的危险。
In all three cases, and for most human beings, the problem of suffering poses no difficult problem at all: one has a world picture in which suffering has its place, a world picture that takes suffering into account.
在所有这三种情况下，对大多数人来说，痛苦的问题根本不构成困难的问题:人们有一幅世界图景，其中有痛苦的位置，一幅考虑到痛苦的世界图景。
There's no way to eloquently put this. I just can't go to the mall. It bothers me that I can't be outside very often. And also to not ever be just 'some girl' again. Just being some chick at some place, that's gone.
这是无法用语言表达的。我就是不能去购物中心。我不能经常出去，这使我很烦恼。也不再只是“某个女孩”。只是在某个地方做个小妞，就这样过去了。
They lead, as a matter of fact, an existence of jumpiness and apprehension. They sit on the edge of the chair of Literature. In the house of Life they have the feeling that they have never taken off their overcoats.
事实上，它们导致了一种不安和忧虑的存在。他们坐在文学的边缘。在生活的房子里，他们有一种从未脱过外套的感觉。
The anguish of the neurotic individual is the same as that of the saint. The neurotic, the saint are engaged in the same battle. Their blood flows from similar wounds. But the first one gasps and the other one gives.
神经质的人和圣人的痛苦是一样的。他们的血从相似的伤口流出。但是第一个人倒抽了一口冷气，另一个人倒抽了一口冷气。
There were a couple of things in the intervention that made me know I needed help. One was a letter from my daughter saying that she was ashamed she had the same last name as I did, which will shock you a little bit.
在干预过程中，有几件事让我知道我需要帮助。其中一封是我女儿的来信，她说她为自己和我姓一样的姓氏而感到羞愧，这可能会让你有点震惊。
It is misery, you know, unspeakable misery for the man who lives alone and who detests sordid, casual affairs; not old enough to do without women, but not young enough to be able to go and look for one without shame!
这是一种痛苦，你知道，对于一个独自生活的人来说，一种说不出的痛苦，他厌恶肮脏的、偶然的事情;没有女人的陪伴，我还不够老，但我还不够年轻，不能去寻找一个没有羞耻的女人!
The ending of sorrow is the beginning of wisdom. Knowledge is always within the shadow of ignorance. Meditation is freedom from thought and a movement in the ecstasy of truth. Meditation is explosion of intelligence.
悲伤的结束是智慧的开始。知识总是在无知的阴影里。冥想是思想的自由，是对真理的狂喜。冥想是智慧的爆发。
When you are suffering, you become more understanding about yourself, but also about other people's sufferings too. That's the first step to understand somebody is to understand their sufferings. So then love follows.
当你受苦的时候，你会对自己有更多的了解，也会对别人的痛苦有更多的了解。了解一个人的第一步就是了解他们的痛苦。于是爱随之而来。
I went across the fields to avoid the straight highways, along the firing lines where people were shooting at a small wooded hill, which is now covered with wooden crosses and lines of graves instead of spring flowers.
我穿过田野，避开笔直的高速公路，沿着火线，人们正在向一座树木繁茂的小山射击，山上现在布满了木制十字架和一排排坟墓，而不是春天的鲜花。
We had allowed our eyes to meet only once- by accident as much as out of necessity- and not ten seconds had passed before the agony had become too great to bear and we had retreated into silence and coldness once more.
我们的目光只相遇过一次——既是偶然的，也是迫不得已的——不到十秒钟，痛苦就变得难以忍受，我们又一次陷入了沉默和冷漠。
I'm happy, I would say that I'm one of the happiest people I know but I've certainly had periods of profound sadness, depression and heartache and those are the kind of things that are interesting to me to write about.
我很快乐，我想说我是我所认识的最快乐的人之一，但我确实有过极度悲伤、抑郁和心痛的时期，这些对我来说都是有趣的事情。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
It is better to be hungry in joy, than to be filled in sorrow.
宁可在喜乐中饥饿，也不愿在忧愁中饱足。
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
悲伤在你身上刻得越深，你就能包含越多的快乐。那盛着你酒的杯，不正是在陶匠的窑里烧过的杯吗?
In your emotions: exercise Joy over sadness.
在你的情绪中:用快乐战胜悲伤。
Broken heart will turn into a stronger one within hope.
破碎的心会在希望中变得更坚强。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
Behind every beautiful thing there's some kind of pain.
每一件美好事物的背后都有某种痛苦。