A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
愤怒
Anger
Unjust. How many times I've used that word, scolded myself with it. All I mean by it now is that I don't have the final courage to say that I refuse to preside over violations against myself, and to hell with justice.
不公平的。我用过多少次这个词,用它来责备自己。我现在的意思是,我没有最后的勇气说,我拒绝主持对我自己的侵犯,让正义见鬼去吧。
Reckon the days in which you have not been angry. I used to be angry every day; now every other day; then every third and fourth day; and if you miss it so long as thirty days, offer a sacrifice of thanksgiving to God.
算一算你没有生气的日子。我过去每天都很生气;现在每隔一天;每隔第三天和第四天;你若思念这事,有三十天之久,就要以感谢为祭献给神。
Your anger was a climate I inhabited like a desert in a dry frigid weather of high thin air and ivory sun, sand dunes the wind lifted into stinging clouds that blinded and choked me where the only ice was in the blood.
你的愤怒是一种气候,我像沙漠一样居住在干燥寒冷的天气里,稀薄的空气和象牙色的阳光,沙丘被风吹成刺人的云,在血液中唯一的冰的地方使我失明和窒息。
Every child senses, with all the horse sense that's in him, that any parent is angry inside when children misbehave and they dread more the anger that is rarely or never expressed openly, wondering how awful it might be.
每个孩子都能感觉到,他身上所有的马的感觉,当孩子行为不端时,任何父母的内心都是愤怒的,他们更害怕那些很少或从未公开表达过的愤怒,不知道这会有多可怕。
But I think the only thing that annoys me about that is if I suddenly find someone on commercial radio or something like that, mimicking my voice or actions and trying to promote a product and pretending it's me doing it.
但我认为唯一让我恼火的是,如果我突然发现有人在商业广播或类似的节目中模仿我的声音或动作,试图推销一种产品,并假装是我在做。
The general’s disdained By him one step below; he, by the next; That next, by him beneath. So every step, Exampled by the first pace that is sick Of his superior, grows to an envious fever Of pale and bloodless emulation.
将军在下一级台阶上就被他蔑视了;他,下一个;下一个,他在下面。因此,每走一步,以他对上级感到厌烦的第一步为例,就会发展成一种嫉妒的狂热,表现为苍白而毫无血色的攀比。
For a long time I thought I could deal with my anger and hostility on my own. But I couldn't. I denied that it had affected me, and yet I was so frantic on the inside with other people: I needed to be constantly reassured.
很长一段时间,我认为我可以独自处理我的愤怒和敌意。但我不能。我否认它影响了我,但我的内心却对其他人如此疯狂:我需要不断地得到安慰。
Xenophobia manifests itself especially against civilizations and cultures that are weak because they lack economic resources, means of subsistence or land. So nomadic people are the first targets of this kind of aggression.
仇外情绪尤其表现在对由于缺乏经济资源、生存手段或土地而软弱的文明和文化。所以游牧民族是这种侵略的第一个目标。
If I become defensive and upset right away, then that's going to adversely affect how I deal with it and it's probably not going to be good press for me and probably be bad just because I'm angry. Just be open and pleasant.
如果我立刻变得有戒心并且感到沮丧,那么这将会对我的处理方式产生负面影响,这对我来说可能不是好事,也可能因为我生气而不好。只要开放和愉快。
My co-therapist told him that it was not required that he like it. She shared her own displeasure, saying: 'I remember that when I first discovered what life was like, I was furious. I guess I'm still kind of mad sometimes.'
我的合作治疗师告诉他,他不需要喜欢它。她也表达了自己的不满,说道:“我记得当我第一次发现生活是什么样子的时候,我非常愤怒。我想我有时还是有点生气。”
That's the conundrum of cartoon stripping, as opposed to political cartoons. When your anger is the driving force of your drawing hand, failure follows. The anger is OK, but it has to serve the interests of the heart, frankly.
这就是漫画剥离的难题,与政治漫画相反。当你的愤怒是你绘画的动力时,失败随之而来。愤怒是可以的,但坦率地说,它必须服务于内心的利益。
The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy. He will not always chide: neither will he keep his anger for ever. He hath not dealt with us after our sins; nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.
耶和华有怜悯,有恩典,不轻易发怒,并有丰盛的慈爱。他不长久责备人,也不永远怀怒。他没有照我们的罪待我们。也不按我们的罪孽报应我们。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
If we could learn to like ourselves, even a little, maybe our cruelties and angers might melt away.
如果我们能学会喜欢自己,哪怕是一点点,也许我们的残忍和愤怒就会消失。
You can never hate strongly unless you have loved strongly.
没有强烈的爱,就不会有强烈的恨。
Self-determination is fine but needs to be tempered with self-control.
自我决定是好的,但是需要自我控制。
Overcome anger with peace. Overcome evil with good. Overcome greed with generosity. Overcome liars with truth.
平和地克服愤怒。以善除恶。用慷慨战胜贪婪。用真理战胜说谎者。
Compassionate listening is to help the other side suffer less. If we realize that other people are the same people as we are, we are no longer angry at them.
富有同情心的倾听是帮助对方减少痛苦。如果我们意识到其他人和我们是一样的人,我们就不再对他们生气了。