Everything we do is in service of our needs. When this one concept is applied to our view of others, we'll see that we have no real enemies, that what others do to us is the best possible thing they know to do to get their needs met.

  • -- Marshall Rosenberg 马歇尔·罗森柏格

我们所做的一切都是为了满足我们的需要。当这一概念应用于我们对他人的看法时,我们会发现我们没有真正的敌人,别人对我们做的是他们知道的最好的事情来满足他们的需求。

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There is all the difference in the world between departure from recognised rules by one who has learned to obey them, and neglect of them through want of training or want of skill or want of understanding. Before you can be eccentric you must know where the circle is.

一个已经学会遵守公认规则的人背离这些规则,或者由于缺乏训练、技能或理解而忽视这些规则,这两者之间有着天壤之别。在你变得古怪之前,你必须知道圆在哪里。

If those who are the enemies of innocent amusements had the direction of the world, they would take away the spring, and youth, the former from the year, the latter from human life.

如果那些反对单纯娱乐的人掌握了世界的方向,他们就会夺走春天和青春,前者从一年之中夺走,后者从人类生活中夺走。

The struggle of my life created empathy - I could relate to pain, being abandoned, having people not love me.

我生命中的挣扎创造了同理心——我能体会到痛苦、被抛弃、没有人爱我。

Where misunderstanding serves others as an advantage, one is helpless to make oneself understood.

当误解把别人当作一种优势时,一个人是无法使别人理解自己的。

Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.

愤怒和偏执是正确理解的敌人。

We do not celebrate the death of our enemies.

我们不庆祝敌人的死亡。