A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
You are all things. Denying, rejecting, judging or hiding from any aspect of your total being creates pain and results in a lack of wholeness.
你就是一切。否认、拒绝、判断或逃避你整体存在的任何方面，都会造成痛苦，并导致整体的缺失。
The difficulty we have in accepting responsibility for our behavior lies in the desire to avoid the pain of the consequences of that behavior.
我们为自己的行为承担责任的困难在于我们想要避免这种行为的后果所带来的痛苦。
Wandering between two worlds, one dead, The other powerless to be born, With now here yet to rest my head, Like these, on earth I wait forlorn.
徘徊在两个世界之间，一个已死，另一个无力降生，此时此刻，我的头还在这里，就像这样，我在地上绝望地等待着。
Dark house, by which once more I stand Here in the long unlovely street, Doors, where my heart was used to beat So quickly, waiting for a hand.
黑暗的房子，我又一次站在这条长长的不可爱的街道上，门，我的心曾在这里跳动得如此之快，等待着一只手。
May I make a suggestion, hoping it is not an impertinence? Write it down: write down what you feel. It is sometimes a wonderful help in misery.
我可以提个建议吗，希望这不是无礼?写下来:写下你的感受。它有时在痛苦中是一个奇妙的帮助。
Who never ate his bread in sorrow, Who never spent the dark some hours Weeping and watching for the morrow He knows ye not, ye heavenly powers.
他从来没有在悲哀中吃过他的面包，他从来没有在黑暗中哭过几个小时，他从来没有为明天守望过，他不认识你们，你们这些属天的大能。
Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment, and especially on their children, than the unlived lives of the parents.
没有什么比父母的死气沉沉的生活对他们的环境，尤其是对孩子的心理影响更大的了。
I had the paper but I did not read it because I did not want to read about the war. I was going to forget the war. I had made a separate peace.
我有报纸，但我没有读，因为我不想读关于战争的东西。我差点忘了那场战争。我已经单独讲和了。
Happiness and misery depend not on how high up or low down you are - they depend not upon these, but on the direction in which you are tending.
幸福和痛苦不取决于你是高是低——它们不取决于这些，而是取决于你的方向。
I think children in general have a very hard time - at least I did - expressing any pain because I didn't want to hurt the people that I loved.
我认为一般来说，孩子们很难表达任何痛苦——至少我是这样——因为我不想伤害我所爱的人。
The eyes of the cheerful and of the melancholy man are fixed upon the same creation; but very different are the aspects which it bears to them.
快乐的人和忧郁的人的眼睛都注视着同一种创造物;但它对他们的影响却大不相同。
I didn't have a good childhood because I never could get along with other kids. I was the child that sat in the corner eating lunch by herself.
我没有一个美好的童年，因为我永远无法与其他孩子相处。我是那个独自坐在角落里吃午饭的孩子。
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沿着这个主题，再读几句。
He who can conceal his joys, is greater than he who can hide his griefs.
能隐藏快乐的人，比能隐藏悲伤的人更伟大。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy.
我们在自己周围筑起的阻挡悲伤的墙也阻挡了快乐。
The joys of parents are secret, and so are their grieves and fears.
父母的快乐是秘密，他们的悲伤和恐惧也是秘密。
Broken heart will turn into a stronger one within hope.
破碎的心会在希望中变得更坚强。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。