A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Losing a parent is a hard thing... I often sit here and think it would be great if mum and dad were alive and had a chance to see their grandkids grow up.
失去父母是件很难过的事……我经常坐在这里想,如果爸爸妈妈还活着,有机会看到他们的孙子孙女长大,那该有多好。
You can try to take sorrow and make it into something enduring, meaningful and beautiful. I always feel guilty that this is my job, that I get to do this.
你可以试着把悲伤变成一种持久的、有意义的、美丽的东西。我总是为这是我的工作而感到内疚,为我能做这件事而感到内疚。
It is always a strain when people are being killed. I don't think anybody has held this job who hasn't felt personally responsible for those being killed.
当人们被杀害时,这总是一种压力。我认为,在担任这一职务的人当中,没有人不觉得对那些被杀害的人负有个人责任。
Words will not be able to ever express how sorry I am for this, and I have profound regret and sorrow for the multitude of mistakes and harm I have caused.
言语无法表达我对此事的歉意,我对自己造成的众多错误和伤害深感遗憾和悲痛。
There was a special challenge in describing the awful childhood of a person who happens to be my own husband. It was very painful at times, for both of us.
在描述一个碰巧是我丈夫的人的悲惨童年时,我遇到了一个特殊的挑战。有时对我们俩来说都很痛苦。
The divorce is a regret of mine and my mum thinks that we should have stayed together. He's now remarried so there's no chance of us getting back together.
离婚是我的一个遗憾,我妈妈认为我们应该呆在一起。他现在再婚了,所以我们不可能再在一起了。
After a while I started to think of that as an image of something that went a lot deeper than the dead dog, which is you can't bring back anything to life.
过了一段时间,我开始认为这是一种比死狗更深层次的东西的形象,那就是你不能让任何东西复活。
In a word, man must create his own essence: it is in throwing himself into the world, suffering there, struggling there, that he gradually defines himself.
总而言之,人必须创造他自己的本质:他把自己投入这个世界,在那里受苦,在那里挣扎,他逐渐定义了自己。
My heart is so light that it's amazing. I get to play all this grief, all this loss, all this disaster and chaos. It's hysterically funny. I am very light.
我的心是如此的轻,这是惊人的。我可以扮演所有的悲伤,所有的损失,所有的灾难和混乱。这是歇斯底里的滑稽。我很轻。
We're kind of wishing some parents would come back. And of course we're uneasy about the fact that we wish they'd come back - I mean, what's wrong with us?
我们有点希望一些父母能回来。当然,我们对希望他们回来的事实感到不安——我的意思是,我们怎么了?
O, how this spring of love resembleth The uncertain glory of an April day, Which now shows all the beauty of the sun, And by and by a cloud takes all away.
啊,这爱的春天是怎样再现四月天那变幻莫测的光辉,现在它把太阳的一切美丽都显露出来,渐渐地,一朵云彩把一切都带走了。
And, here’s what I know: I’m not drowning anymore. I can’t see my island; he’s gone forever from me now, but I’m standing on life’s shore again. I am here.
我所知道的是:我不再溺水了。我看不见我的岛;他永远地离开了我,但我又站在了人生的岸上。我在这里。
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It is better to be hungry in joy, than to be filled in sorrow.
宁可在喜乐中饥饿,也不愿在忧愁中饱足。
There's a false perception that women in Africa somehow don't love their babies they way we do, don't grieve their loss the way we would. That is simply not true.
有一种错误的观念认为非洲的妇女不像我们一样爱她们的孩子,不像我们一样为失去孩子而悲伤。但事实并非如此。
Ever since happiness heard your name, it has been running through the streets trying to find you.
自从幸福听到你的名字,它就一直在街上跑着寻找你。
It is right it should be so, Man was made for joy and woe; And when this we rightly know, Through the world we safely go.
应该如此,人是为快乐和悲伤而生的;当我们正确地认识到这一点时,我们就能安全地穿过这个世界。
You cannot protect yourself from sadness without also protecting yourself from happiness.
你不可能保护自己不悲伤,也不可能保护自己不快乐。
In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider.
顺境的日子,你当喜乐;患难的日子,你当思想。